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Archived questions from: 8 July, 2013 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Does he miss me and want to get back together but is too scared to make the first move?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4178 days ago

8 July 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - My ex-boyfriend and I met on a dating site. We hit it off immediately and throughout our 6-month relationship he’d text/call everyday. He was still occasionally on the dating site where we met but I didn't say anything. We live in different cities (35 miles apart). He was ... (596 words)

What the heck happened? Why am I fantasizing about this guy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4184 days ago

8 July 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been engaged for two months and have been with my boyfriend for 4 years and am in the middle of planning a wedding. I love him very much. I have never thought about cheating but something crazy happened. I was at a work travel recently for 4 nights and ran into someone I ... (448 words)

Would you believe him? Or is this too weird?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4184 days ago

8 July 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Ok, my boyfriend and I have been together for 3 years. We're both in our early 30's. Anyway, he's been living out of state for the last 5 months (on work) and is finally moving back here in 2 weeks. He hasn't found a solid place yet, but has the money for rent/deposits so we've ... (639 words)

Lost friends during pregnancy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4182 days ago

8 July 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear cupid, I'm currently 25 weeks pregnant and finished working in the week as my shifts have been cut down. My husband works full time, so we'll still be okay for money. (Just filling you in on my situation). I have recently realized that I have lost quite a lot of friends... (266 words)

His new wife is trying to dominate me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4183 days ago

8 July 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Sorry if I make mistakes typing, its on my phone and Im useless!Me and my ex share custody of our two daughters who are 7 and 9. I was with him for 8 years and he met his partner and got married within 8 months of us splitting up. He cheated pn me to be with her and got ... (293 words)

He's a great guy except for his neediness to hear from me constantly.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4182 days ago

8 July 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - ..I would really like some advice on this please. .. My earlier question was closed and some guy posted saying he was my boyfriend. To the mods, my boyfriend does not know of this page at all! This was my question http://www.dearcupid.org/question/how-do... (448 words)

My bf told me to give him the ultimatum in August, but now one of my friends has confessed his feelings for me. Help?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4182 days ago

8 July 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi guys I would like advice please as you have all been really helpful to me in the past. I have been with my boyfriend for just over 4 years now. Those of you who have seen my past posts will remember I have been divorced for 7 and a half years and have 2 children and my ... (436 words)

One night he got up and left and I never saw it coming, how do I get over him when we work together at the weekend?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4181 days ago

8 July 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I need help! Just over a month ago my boyfriend who I had been with for ten months one night just got up and left! He came back the next day saying how sorry he was we spent the day together we slept together and then the next day... He had gone again! He told me he no longer ... (131 words)

How do I tell him nicely that won’t be taking things any further?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4181 days ago

8 July 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - So I went on a date with his guy and I don’t know how to tell him I don’t want to peruse a relationship with him. We met in a bar exchanged numbers and he asked me out on a date. We meet up and everything is fine but about an hour into the date, he gets really ‘romanti... (324 words)

Confused, we were getting along so well, but he lost his job and now doesn't want to continue, and we haven't had our first date yet!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4164 days ago

8 July 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone I have used this site previously however I haven't been online in a very long time. I am just looking for some advice on something that may seem small to others but it is a huge deal to me, so here goes. For the last 4 months I have been getting to know a guy ... (390 words)

What is he playing at with that line?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4183 days ago

8 July 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Last night I was singing, and this guy was saying, 'you do realise you have the power to make men fall in love with you? Well you just have'. Later he came back to my place and slept with my flatmate. What's he playing at?... (48 words)

Just discovered my live-in boyfriend of two years is checking out match.com profiles

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4183 days ago

8 July 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - I am not sure how to react to all of this. I have a boyfriend who I have been dating for 2 years. We have lived together for over a year now. He has been a great guy and I never suspected he would cheat on me or betray me. I was married for 13 years and my husband died. It was ... (250 words)

I'm a mess since we split, should I tell her that I did call her on that weekend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4184 days ago

8 July 2013 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi. My gf split up 2 months ago and we chatted online for a month after that and then there was complete 1 month no contact after that. We split cause she felt she needed sometime to be alone and decide on a career path. But i got drunk last, missed her too much and called her ... (220 words)

My girlfriend sexted at least two guys right after we broke up. We're now back together but I don't know if I can trust her.

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4181 days ago

8 July 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi me and my girlfriend have been dating for a little over 4 years now. We are 23 years old and were friends before we dated, she is my best friend.... However recently i went through a bout of depression and checked out of the relationship for roughly a year, eventually... (332 words)

My boyfriend is being inconsiderate and giving me attitude and we have started fighting

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4184 days ago

8 July 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I have been together on and off for over 19 months, we broke up once for a couple of weeks but got back together and since we got back about three months ago we have been getting on really well but for the last week or so we have been arguing and im just ... (528 words)

Haven't heard from him in two weeks -- what do I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4184 days ago

8 July 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - So my boyfriend hasn't been texting me in over 2 weeks. The last thing I heard from him was that he was in the hospital with a lot of pain. The hospital is on base so I can't enter. I don't know what to do! Should I just wait?... (50 words)

Does it matter that I'm not that physically attracted to him?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4183 days ago

8 July 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - hi. Im just looking for advice on dating someone ur not sexually attracted to?! iv met this lovely man, his nearly 17 yrs older than me but that isn't a problem for us. we get on rather well and i feel ifwe get together as an actual couple he would treat me great, unlike all ... (172 words)

Is he playing it cool?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4184 days ago

8 July 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi i have known a man 2 months now we went on a date 4 days ago and are planning a second one soon we really hit off or so i thought i text him yesterday to which i got a reply saying cant wait to see you again speak to you soon did he mean this or is he playing it cool i need ... (75 words)

We started dating too soon after his breakup -- should I wait?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4184 days ago

8 July 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey Guys! I'm feeling really sad and I need some honest and objective opinions. 3 months ago I started dating this really great guy. It was very laidback and we saw eachother like 2 times a week and it was very nice. After 3 months my feelings became stronger and I wanted som... (221 words)

Five dates and his profile's still active? Should I move on?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4139 days ago

8 July 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - I met this guy online on an online dating site. After writing to each other for two days, we decided to meet. I really like him and we went on our fifth date last weekend. It has been four weeks since we started meeting each other. He has never held my hand or kissed me pas... (255 words)

I thought he was the one, now I'm not so sure

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4184 days ago

8 July 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey guys i really need your help. I thought i loved my boyfriend more than ive ever loved anyone in my life. i know im only 19 but i thought it was different this time. i saw our future together and looked forward to a happy perfect life after we both graduated college. we're ... (185 words)

No self esteem, so no self-confidence -- it's really holding me back

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4184 days ago

8 July 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello, this is really a long going problem with me... It is my confidence and self esteem, especially around new people, my example being I used to go round to my mates a lot with a groups of friends, few of them I wasent comfortable around (kinda new mates) anyway I got dubbed ... (586 words)

I resent my boyfriend for what he said and I don't feel as if he should "benefit" from the relationship in that case!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4182 days ago

8 July 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone. My question is about my boyfriend of 3 years, he is 8 years older and has 2 kids. He does not want more and told me he would never have chidren with me. I was not sure what I wanted, but have now decided I don't want to have kids. So now we both don't want kids, we ... (125 words)

I'm having regrets after a one-night stand!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4184 days ago

8 July 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - Well I'm going to brutally honest. I'm 17 and I gave a guy a blowjob this morning cause we were up all night and I was at his appt. With friends and his friends. Later on we all separated and did our own things mine personally leading to giving him head. I have done this Before ... (164 words)

Why do men make such a big deal about my orgasming with them? Is it my issue or his?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4183 days ago

8 July 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Every man I have been with has always made such a big deal out of me not having orgasms with them. It's like they are personally insulted by it or something? why? what's the big deal? I have only orgasmed with someone once through penetrative sex, when I lost my virginit... (250 words)

He sent me a critique of our night together!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4180 days ago

8 July 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupid, Okay this is embarrassing.. I started to see a guy, very smart, kind and fun to be around. Last night was the 1st we had sex. I am a bit shy by nature but quite open minded sexually. Anyway the sex I thought was quite good, and when I left his flat early this ... (312 words)

Any hope of love, friendship and community for an outcast?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4184 days ago

8 July 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - Hello everyone, I just simply wanted to ask for sincere advice although helping me may or may not be so simple. My issue that I have had a very rough start at life and that I have never had a collective community who have fully accepted me for who I am and that I have never ... (620 words)

He has funny marks on his face that he says came from playing basketball. Is he cheating?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4183 days ago

8 July 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - So here is my story; In the beginning of June my boyfriend broke his phone, he has been jobless and his parents have kicked him out quite a few times, and also his car broke down. So basically we haven't really talked, and when we do its every other Saturday or Sunday. I also ... (340 words)

I need alimony money from my husband. How does that work?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4184 days ago

8 July 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - my husband s filing for a divorce. There is no money in the house and we dont have any other assets together but i want him to give me alimony. i just want to know what is going to be on the divorce papers? Is it going to have question on how much alimony i can get? i have no ... (84 words)

She rejected me and then months later texts me. Is she regretting her decisions?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4181 days ago

8 July 2013 (M)

age 26-29 - Hi readers. So this girl I haven't talked to in months (Christmas basically) texted me tonight out of nowhere saying hey. I have a feeling she's bored, or she's reconsidering rejecting me. I don't know. I'm making small talk with her now, but I want to know from you guys if I ... (79 words)

Since I moved away my sister and I aren't as close and it troubles me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4182 days ago

8 July 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - kind of a relationship problem, my sister is my best friend, in april I moved out of state, 5 hours away. we used to be together all the time and if we weren't together we would be on the phone or texting. Well the day I moved she bail on me to come help me load the truck and ... (283 words)

My girl on the side stopped contacting me. Do I discuss this with my wife? She knows about this girl already

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4184 days ago

8 July 2013 (M)

age 41-50 - My wife and I have a fairly open relationship. Recently I met a girl at a party and we got on well. We eventually slept together a couple of times, my wife being aware and okay with it. The three of us spent a few evenings and days hanging out. However, this girl recently go... (130 words)

I know when other girls like me, but I'm not sure about this one?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4182 days ago

8 July 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - The girls at work seem to like me and there is no shortage of flirting. However, there is this girl who always has a go at me. Whatever she can she will disturb me. If I am playing a computer game, she will deliberately come behind me and press a button on my game so that I ... (172 words)

How to control a co-worker crush?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4182 days ago

8 July 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi all, I am really in need of your help. I need your advice on how to put limits and control on a crush at work place when both parties are married. Both parties are working closely. I have limited the talk to this guy to only work-related and in a profession... (129 words)

My girlfriend exchanged nude photos with another guy

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4184 days ago

8 July 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - Well, me and my girlfriend met at college and I can honestly say that I adore her and fell in love with her. I would find myself doing ANYTHING and EVERYTHING that I could for this girl. She has been through some tough times and has had a messed up past, she doesn't know what ... (193 words)