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Archived questions from: 31 July, 2013 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

My girlfriend and I are in love but I am a lesbian and she says she is bisexual and I wasn't her first choice. I don't know if we can fix this.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4159 days ago

31 July 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I am gay and my girlfriend says she is a bisexual - she says she ignored it for fear, don't accept it, even fell in love with her best friend once, but lied to herself -, but today we were talking about it, about her exes (all boys)and I said "I am sorry it wasn't your first ... (98 words)

We broke up but when met up again and had sex. I'm confused about what he wants

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4160 days ago

31 July 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I dumped my ex about three weeks ago. Let me tell you why, he started saying he doesn't know how much longer we would be together because he doesn't like being chained down all the time. I took that as him saying he wants to see other people. I asked him if he wanted to break ... (286 words)

My face is attractive but I'm quite flabby and I'm worried girls would be put off

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4160 days ago

31 July 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - My question is the type usually asked by females, who are generally more unsecure about their bodies. Looking on the internet, it seems from the blogs discussing the male body part that females find attractive, it seems that the great majority of females look at the face, and... (142 words)

I lost my friend to a girl, now they're fighting. Are they likely to break up or patch things up? I want my friend back.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4160 days ago

31 July 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - Basically I'm just asking when couples start having arguments to the point where they think about breaking up, does that mean they are likely yto break up or will putting wrong to right make them stronger than ever then make them work? I'm asking as I lost my best bud just un... (546 words)

I'm going abroad for a job, shouls I let him know how I feel for him? I've only met him once but I just know he's specialw

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4158 days ago

31 July 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm leaving in a month for a job abroad. Should I just tell him how i feel. I took him into consideration but I just feel like I need to move on. He hasn't made a move, we only met once, but I just know what I like. I know what I want and it doesn't take me long to figure ... (207 words)

Is it normal that I've never felt any sort of spark when meeting someone or when in a relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4160 days ago

31 July 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Is it normal I've never feel any sort of spark when meeting someone or when in a relationship? I haven't had many serious relationships at all, recently I went on a date a few days ago with someone who seemed perfect for me on paper and who I've really enjoyed messagin... (114 words)

I saw my ex at an event, we didn't speak but he looked emotional and left straight afterwards. Why would he do this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4160 days ago

31 July 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - I saw my ex at a recent event. I have not seen him since he broke up with me more than a year ago. I was trembling inside and my knees felt weak when I saw him. He had this emotional look on his face when he saw me. I ignored him and walked away. I just could not handle ... (118 words)

What does it mean that he walked past me and blew in my ear?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4161 days ago

31 July 2013 (?) age 26-29 - Is he being friendly? is he playing? does he like me? what the heck is he doing? If you've read my questions before, this is the same guy. If you have not, that's ok. About three days ago I was just standing in the auditorium looking for someone to talk to that I... (247 words)

I'm happy but overshadowed by jealousy over ex. How do I get past this?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4160 days ago

31 July 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - My ex ended our relationship nearly two years ago. We was together 5 years. We were both at fault, but I own up to doing a lot of bad things too. He has ignored me completely and he showed no signs of any grief or jealousy when I met someone else almost immediately. I am on my... (178 words)

What did her text mean? Was it good? Or not so good?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4160 days ago

31 July 2013 (M)

age 51-59 - Hello I,m a 52 year old man , and I,ve just been on a first date with a woman. we had lunch, and at the end of the date, I said can I text or call you and she said yes, but a few hours later, before I texted her to thank her for her company, and ... (217 words)

Can you get an STD if penis was only 1/2 covered by condom?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4144 days ago

31 July 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - I will like to know if having sex and you found out that the condom is half way on your penis, can u get infected with std,std like that ... (29 words)

Can my siblings come after me for a decision my mom made on her insurance policy even though it's not my fault?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4161 days ago

31 July 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - Dear Cupid ,I have a question um my mom health is talking an awful turn we don't know how long she will be with us but she made me Power of Attorney over her and I was wondering who do I talk to about is there a (Will) my mom told me that if she passes everything will be ... (133 words)

He's tried to do the right thing but doesn't want her to be hurt more than necessary

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4160 days ago

31 July 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - 4 years ago when I was 18 I met this guy when we started working together, he was 26 at the time. Our job requires us to work away from home; so we spent quite a lot of time together and became close straight away even though he was in a relationship of 3 years. About a y... (389 words)

He said I should pay our bills because I don't have kids

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4157 days ago

31 July 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello Aunts and Uncles. My boyfriend is always short of money, I have to pay for our all our travel, the whole rent and he pays 1/2 our food. He says he can't afford any more because of maintenance for his daughter who is 8. I do not know what he earns exactly but it is not a ... (171 words)

I am still hung up on a guy on a dating site

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4159 days ago

31 July 2013 (?) age 51-59 - I went back on the dating site a few days ago. It seems like things are still the same. The guy I liked is still on there. It's really weird because just before I closed out my account the order of the guys that viewed me was different when I got back on. He hadn't viewed me ... (404 words)

I want this to be the best date she's ever had! Help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4156 days ago

31 July 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - So I'm currently on the cusp of something big with a girl I've had a crush on for years. We met when we were 8 and grew up together and all that cliche crap. Fast forward to me actually doing something about it because frankly, I was sick of her complaining about all the ... (197 words)

I need some tips on making my first time more pleasurable so I can relax and seem more like I know what I'm doing

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4154 days ago

31 July 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm in a very committed relationship.Im at the point where I want to have sex but I'm nervous because I'm a virgin. I just want some tips on what I can do to make it more pleasurable since they say it hurts your first time. I just need some tips that makes it seem at least a ... (66 words)

How do I keep this relationship without having contact with his friends?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4155 days ago

31 July 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - How to tell him that's not what I want? I was on a trip, and met this guy. The way he dressed and acted I didn't know he was so young, 30. I am in my 40s with grown child. We spend couple days together, and on a second day I stayed with him in his hotel, and we had sex... (669 words)

Found out that my ex lives near the home my wife rented. Have made it complicated for myself? What should I do now?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4160 days ago

31 July 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - Dear Cupid, I arrived in US three weeks ago. I'm Indian Muslim . I'm 28. My wife is also 28 Recently, I bumped into my Ex”L” while jogging and she lives just one mile away from my wife house. She was also American and dumped me four years ago. Just after one year, I met... (356 words)

The menace of bullying: Why are kids turning increasingly mean nowadays?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4131 days ago

31 July 2013 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi all. I just finished reading http://www.dearcupid.org/question/traumatic-past-haunting-your-present-and-threatening-your.html and I was wondering why kids can be so mean nowadays? I understand that bullying went on lots when we were younger but it seems to be getting worse ... (63 words)

Any and all advice on different things that would work for lovers with a height difference would be greatly appreciated.

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4158 days ago

31 July 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear Aunts and Uncles, My boyfriend and I are high school sweethearts, we've been dating for over two years now and while we've gotten really physical, we haven't had sex yet, although we are ready to. We intend to soon - with protection, we are prepared consenting adults. ... (185 words)

I don't know if I could ever trust again and build the relationship up, which seems like double standards based on my past behavior.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4160 days ago

31 July 2013 (M)

age 51-59 - I'm not quite sure where to start with all of this, so here goes; I've been in a relationship with my partner for 13 years now, and I love her very much, we have three young kids together. About four years ago I discovered that my partner had taken out a huge loan secure... (690 words)

I need advice on how to get over this foolish crush I developed on my boss at my work.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4157 days ago

31 July 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone I need advice on how to get over this foolish crush I developed on my boss at my work. Ever since I started that job I began to like him. He is the more quiet and serious type that is pretty much all about work. I can't understand why I like him so much I wish he ... (159 words)

My fiance and I are currently planning our wedding for December 2013 but I don't want his friends there.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4160 days ago

31 July 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - My fiance and I are currently planning our wedding for Decenber 2013. The problem is I don't want his friends there. Please advise me on how to handle this. Six months ago (when we were already engaged), he was invited to a wedding without me. I thought this was a major... (347 words)

Is she really busy as she says, or just keeping me on hold?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4147 days ago

31 July 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - There's a girl I really like and know through my summer job. We talk quite a bit and I enjoy her company. We can be really honest with each other, she tells me about things how she felt a bit overwhelmed away at school or goings on in her life, etc. I asked her a while back if ... (490 words)

He is almost the perfect guy but he just wont text!

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 4156 days ago

31 July 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - i've been seeing this guy for 3 months now.everything was great. i know he likes me and he knows i like him. we went to several dates. he always holds my hand, hugs me when we are watching movies, always drops me off at my bus stop. in short to me he's perfect when we meet. b... (227 words)

Every day since I came out there is an argument!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4133 days ago

31 July 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm not sure if this is the best place to go but I don't know where to go really. Since I came out 2 years ago things changed completely between my mother and I and its frosty to say the least between us. What happens is that every day there is guaranteed to be an argument b... (198 words)