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Archived questions from: 21 July, 2013 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Boyfriend's contact with me becoming less and less. Is he going off me? Or am I over-reacting?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4140 days ago

21 July 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, my new boyfriend and I are both 26. On nights out, he had tried to chat to me for a few months and I haven't wanted to speak to him as he was always so drunk with his friends, plus I wasn't ready to date after a break up. One night I gave in and finally started talking ... (377 words)

Why did he casually bring up is ex-gf?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4139 days ago

21 July 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - There's this guy I've been getting to know since over a month now(we're not dating, just hanging out for coffee and small talk after school). I'm pretty sure that he likes me (really wants to get to know me, compliments me, say I look good/sexy, replies right away to my ... (310 words)

I treat her like a princess, things seemed to be going well, so why does she say I'm pushing her away?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4139 days ago

21 July 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - Firstly, thanks for the advice. I am not sure what to think so i guess it's always good to get an outside opinion. I have been on a few dates with a girl whom i met at a party a few weeks ago. I am 24 and she is 20. I have a good job and have had quite a privileged upbri... (897 words)

It's not that she had sex, it's that she had sex with *him*

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4140 days ago

21 July 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - Dear community, currently, I'm in a relationship with a girl (19. I'm really in love with her and I strongly believe that she's too. But there's this one thing that keeps bothering me the whole time. During the time her previous relationship (3 years) was nearing it's end, she... (228 words)

Committed relationship, but things have run their course ...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4140 days ago

21 July 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone, would really appreciate any advice you have to offer! Me and my boyfriend have been together for 4 and a half years, everything was amazing at first, but now i feel like things have taken its natural course! I feel like weve been staying together out of con... (255 words)

She's been acting her age and it's getting on my nerves

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4139 days ago

21 July 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - ive been with my girlfriend just over a month now, shes 17 and im 20 shell be 18 in december. we were friends before we got together and everythings been great. shes my first ever girlfriend and its been great but now im having thoughts of leaving her as the 17 year old has ... (347 words)

Is this relationship as good as it gets?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4140 days ago

21 July 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I am 27 (28 next week) and I'm scared I will never have a good relationship in my life. I have had several boyfriend's throughout my life, but none of the relationships have ever been that good. I have been with my current boyfriend for 3 years, and while I do love him a lo... (529 words)

Does my unusual prefrence doom me to being alone?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4138 days ago

21 July 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - Hello Aunts and Uncles, I have a pretty vague question but I'll try and go into detail. I'm a 17 year old female and all my life I've only been attracted to middle aged women. I realized I was gay at about 11 years old, so I consciously knew how I felt, and I guess at the ... (935 words)

What he said broke my heart

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4138 days ago

21 July 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi My bf currently stays with his mother as he needs to take care of some family business. I went to meet him a week back and we had a small fight as i wanted to spend more time with him and he wants to hang around with his friends. I was trying to reach him from the d... (189 words)

Is a threesome a good idea? Should I delay decision making, until I return in a month?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4139 days ago

21 July 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi aunts and uncles :) I'll start with a bit of back story first. My boyfriend and I have been together for over 5 years now and we believe we are in a strong relationship. We've been through a lot what with family death and serious fall outs between family, so all in al... (530 words)

I'm in love with my ex's friend, so where do I stand with him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4140 days ago

21 July 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm going to make this as short as I possibly can!! About 4 years ago I had a boyfriend. MY boyfriend had a friend who Was really cool. Long story short, after me and my boyfriend had broken up me and his friend became close. We were only best friends even though we l... (802 words)

Is she going to turn straight?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4140 days ago

21 July 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm a butch lesbian and I'm in a relationship with a straight girl turned femme. I love her so much and I want her to be in my future, you know... those dreams that you have a partner for life. But something has been bothering me lately. I'm a one-way lesbian and I do... (252 words)

We broke up, but he's still the one I talk to - will I ever get over him this way?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3896 days ago

21 July 2013 (F) age 26-29 - Hello. I'm a 16 year old girl. I was in a relationship with this guy but we kind of 'broke up' when I had to move away last year December. We still kept in touch and all through skyping but then it got lesser until a point when we just messaged each other. And we no longer... (320 words)

Can you love someone and still cheat on them for so long?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4138 days ago

21 July 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been in a true heart dilemma for the past year. It all started when I went back to work after my maternity leave, I was 34 at the time. I was married at the time going through a separation. I found my work to be a relief from the stress at home and I started getting ... (702 words)

Boyfriend of 4 weeks slept with me, but he's still using dating sites!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4131 days ago

21 July 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Help, what do I do? I have been dating my boyfriend about 4 weeks last night we slept together. I was under the understanding we were exclusive as he said but then I went to delete my dating account only to be horrified that he is still activily using his account the past week ... (127 words)

Married a friend, not a soulmate. How do I tolerate his intense need for affection and attention when he returns?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4141 days ago

21 July 2013 (F)

- This is why I'm a jerk. My husband and I have been together for 8 years, married for 4. He's 31, I'm 27. For the first 4 years, he was a graphic designer. For the last 4 years, he's been a Marine. For the first 5ish years, he was a depressed mess - we had lots of ... (640 words)

Married for 32 years and she's never given me oral sex. Will I die never knowing what it's like?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4139 days ago

21 July 2013 (M)

age - I am 56 yrs old, sitting here late at night ready to cry - in that I have known my wife (55) for 35 yrs., married for 32, with 3 grown children and 2 grandchildren - and through all these years, she has never given me oral sex. I made some subtle suggestions early in our ... (320 words)

He's in a relationship, but is he attracted to me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4138 days ago

21 July 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone. I need guys opinion. If a guy teases you a lot would that mean he likes you? Or is it just for a play? I have a guy friend from uni who always say he likes me. but its all for fun. I never took it seriously. But everyday he does tease me, that He has fe... (120 words)

After a turbulent past, I'm finding myself jealous of his grandson!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3896 days ago

21 July 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Ok. I know I am going to probably sound juvenile and selfish, but here goes. I have had a turbulent relationship in the past with my son's father. Our past involves his substance abuse, leaving me and our then infant son for another woman, coming back to us, arguing and ... (220 words)