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Archived questions from: 19 July, 2013 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

He broke up with me because he thinks I gave him a STD

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4141 days ago

19 July 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - ok ,,, i've been dating a guy for nine years , we were on and off , but recently we have broken up , bec we think i have STD , at least he thinks i caught it and gave it to him ,coming from my country , such is a disgrace , so i can't go to see actually a doctor unless i'm ... (244 words)

I really like this guy but I didn't follow "the rules"

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4136 days ago

19 July 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - There is a guy I messaged on match. I was instantly attracted to his pics and his style so I messaged "you are so fine" and he messaged back saying, "I was going to say the same about you!" I didn't think too much of it though because I wanted to meet in person to confirm my ... (699 words)

Amazing passion with my sexy neighbour, then the ex pops up again

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4139 days ago

19 July 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi I desperately need some advice as in a real mess ! I dated Jon three years ago for about a year. I totally fell in love with him but became frustrated that he seemed to lack interest in me and the relationship seemed very one sided. He broke up with me suddenly after I told ... (536 words)

My married friend is getting more aggressive

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4141 days ago

19 July 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I am a single mom and work as a nurse. I have met a physician I really like only to find out he is married. Well, I don't do married but agreed that we can be friends and nothing more. He has made it clear that he wants more but he doesn't want me to fall in love. Anyway, I ... (227 words)

Tired of one night stands -- am I being an idiot?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4130 days ago

19 July 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - I came out of a relationship a while ago and since then, i have been going on at least 2 dates each week and sleeping with the girls the first night. I never stayed in touch with them and thought being single was great. Last week i was at a bar with a friend and had a great ... (446 words)

Low libido due to medication. Is there anything I can do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4141 days ago

19 July 2013 (M)

age 51-59 - Hi everyone. I take medication for depression and anxiety. It's not really an option to come off them at the moment. The problem is it more or less completely suppresses my sex drive. I'm still interested in women and sex, and I think if I had a partner it wouldn't matter.... (240 words)

Do large age gaps work in relationships?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4138 days ago

19 July 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - dear aunts and uncles, i have read quite a few articles here about age gaps, and i know one or two of you are in an age gap relationship. im not going to go into my story because mine is just like a few on here. i will just say that i was just recently left for a girl in her ... (305 words)

I'm dating my ex again but I'm just not sure what to read from her actions

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4133 days ago

19 July 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I came on here a few months ago, because my girlfreind dumped me after her dad got into a tragic accident and was left very badly hurt and needing help 24/7. It has been 4.5 months since the split, and we have recently been meeting up again. We have met up 3 times and on e... (230 words)

How would you feel if your fiance talks a lot about a female co-worker? Should I be concerned?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4137 days ago

19 July 2013 (F)

age - Well, I'm back. I've posted on here about this issue before and it doesn't seem to be getting resolved. I know this is a long post. So bear with me on that. I didn't intend for it to be. Kudos to anyone that can finish reading it. Thank you. My fiance is the boss of this ... (898 words)

When do couples start discussing the future?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4142 days ago

19 July 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - When do couples start discussing the future? And how do you go about it? This is my second relationship but the first one I didn't go about the correct way and I don't want to mess this one up. If someone could please help me I'd really appreciate it.... (49 words)

He woke me up and used the "two minute blow-up doll" method.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4139 days ago

19 July 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - So Im really mad right now. My husband and I dont have sex often ( maybe twice a week if that- NOT by my choice ( he gets mad if I complain or ask for 3-4 times a week.) So its almost 4 am. He woke me up around three ready to go. I was sound asleep but happy to oblige him ... (381 words)

Would you date a guy with a background like mine?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4127 days ago

19 July 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi, I'm a 26 year old guy and I've never been in a relationship. I'm going to give an explanation as of why. In my teens I was essentially very shy and insecure and so didn't really dare to approach girls that I liked. When I was 19 I started to have problems with my... (550 words)

Girlfriend thinks she's selfish and might break up to "save me"??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4142 days ago

19 July 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - my girlfriend is going through a really hard moment and is "threatening" to break up with me.... her mom found a lump in her breast, and had it checked out and it was ok, but in the process, my girlfriend started to over think and get really scared... this is basically wh... (755 words)

My boyfriend has been meeting up with his homewrecker ex and has lied about it

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4141 days ago

19 July 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Sorry this could be long. What are people's opinions on this? I've been with my current partner for just under a year. We were friends for 3 years before we got together. One of my very best friends is my first boyfriend who I broke up with 10 years ago. For the last 8 years... (463 words)

I'm wondering if girlfriend was a virgin?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4142 days ago

19 July 2013 (M)

age 26-29 - hello dear aunts, I have recently start dating this girl, she has just turned 21. she recently confessed she was a virgin when we did it for the first time, however I've been skeptical. (sorry for being graphic) I gave her oral a few times, only that. she didn't want to go ... (161 words)

I feel inadequate because she loves someone with money more

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4142 days ago

19 July 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - I need some help, lately I've been feeling inadequate in competing for the affections of a girl I'm apparently not even in the running for. I'm in love with my best friend, which she knows, and she's always telling me about her other friend who's also in love with her. We both ... (384 words)

I'm obsessed with a man I don't even know. How can I approach him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4142 days ago

19 July 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello! I'm currently obessed with this man who I don't know anything about. this past year I've ran into him a couple of times and each time I feel like he wants to flirt? He gives me these looks and smile. Like when I ran into him again a few weeks ago he actually stopped... (170 words)

I am new to having sex but am worried something is wrong. I feel like I could pass out!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4142 days ago

19 July 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - i need some help. i had sex for the first time about two days ago. yeah i was nervous but also very comfortable since it was with my boyfriend who i love very much, and he also helped me feel comfortable. what i dont understand it right when i started having sex, i got reall... (233 words)

How do I define the relationship I now have with my ex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4142 days ago

19 July 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I really need advice. I broke up with my lesbian partner of 3yrs in February. We were having issues and she couldn't forgive me n move past it so we broke up. A couple weeks later I'm in another relationship with a woman I met online. I didn't fall for her fast we just clicked ... (235 words)

Need to choose between two guys

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4142 days ago

19 July 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - A few months ago I was becoming quite lonely with few friends and was dying to be in a relationship with someone who cares about me and who I can care about. I guess my confidence got better and now I have more friends and ,now, I have fallen for and have attracted the ... (639 words)