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Archived questions from: 6 July, 2013 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

He's upset that I don't just accept everything that he says but he's got his own issues! How do we work things out?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4185 days ago

6 July 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Soooooo my boyfriend are not seeing eye to eye on a few things. For example, he doesn't like me watching 'Long Island Medium' because it goes against his religious beliefs. I'm agnostic, and I am open about reconverting back to christianity but I'm in no rush. I don't know a ... (283 words)

We just got married and already the families are badgering us about having children!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4185 days ago

6 July 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi all! I posted a few years ago about being engaged to a Russian man and his very traditional family was pressuring us to get on with the wedding and move to Russia. But I was much too preoccupied with college and such. Well, we're done with college and we've gotten married ... (211 words)

My ex contacted me after almost 1 year of no contact. What could he want from me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4185 days ago

6 July 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - So it has almost been a year soon that my ex of 5 years and I split and broke up. He ended it. This very morning I get a call from him. I do not have his number saved however I obviously still remember it by heart. I absolutely did not answer. It rang until I guess he got the ... (295 words)

Is it posible to truly love or befriend someone who is not the same as mainstream people all around me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4186 days ago

6 July 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - Hey everyone, it's true, normality will never exist in my life but because I have been severely punished over this fact again and again by far more than just bullies and tyrants. I have started to despise myself for it. It all started when I entered the public schools syst... (697 words)

How do I deal with a woman with a low self esteem who keeps telling me to leave her alone?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4186 days ago

6 July 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - I need some help.. 8 days ago this woman pushed me away. Saying I wanna be alone I hv no feelings for you. Something I do not buy based on all her feedback our intimacy dates n her body language. I told her I love her. She says move on im not interested I dont like u etc and ... (174 words)

He's my boyfriend, but he's posting pictures of some other beach beauty. Am I overreacting?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4186 days ago

6 July 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend recently took a series of 3 pictures of a girl on the beach that he posted to his blog. When I saw them, it made me really angry. I told him I didn't like the photos and thought it was being creepy and inconsiderate of my feelings. He told me that he didn't see ... (74 words)

I'm a teacher, but I'm not HER teacher. Is she still off limits?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4184 days ago

6 July 2013 (M)

age 51-59 - This may sound like a typical college teacher-student case, but it's somewhat different, since I'm attracted to this girl who isn't and has never been my student. We met because some months ago she started working as staff so we see every day as our desks are on the same floor. ... (189 words)

Insecure and falling back to old patterns. Am I dreaming my life away?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4183 days ago

6 July 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Before I turned twenty five I thought i had everything I was with my first boyfriend whom i lost my vriginity to and after five years of mind games and what i know abuse to be now(sometimes spiting at me, and telling me i have a fat belly,, or who to hang out with) he wanted to ... (703 words)

Please help me, have I lost perspective in this clash with my new boyfriend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4185 days ago

6 July 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - I am in a very new relationship (5 weeks) with a guy. I met him via an online dating site. We get on extraordinarily well... when we see each other. In this five weeks, we've had separations of 10 days (his vacation), 5 days (my vacation) and now another 4 days (his long ... (1082 words)

Why is it the people that you find VERY attractive never feel the same way towards you, yet the people you don't find attractive obsess over you?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4186 days ago

6 July 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Why is it the people that you find VERY attractive never feel the same way towards you, yet the people you don't find attractive obsess over you? Does anyone else get this? ... (37 words)

How should I act around my ex who just finished our relationship?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4186 days ago

6 July 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - We were together for a year and a month, a few days before our anniversary (a month ago) he told me he was planning on ending it, he came to mine we both cried he said he hated the arguing and I promised it would stop, he said I'll give it 2 months and see how it goes. We did... (923 words)

Please help me - did I lose my virginity?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4185 days ago

6 July 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Over the summer I had a boyfriend we will always be together well anyways , one day we were at his bedroom and we got sexual he sticked his penus in me and I had pain but my question is if he sticked it in once did he pop my cherry ? when we got up there was a wet spot on the ... (71 words)

Should I quit something I love (weed) in hope of happiness?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4184 days ago

6 July 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - Not a relationship question but advice please, right I have been smoking weed for about 10 years now and I still love it, I don't like alcohol as much for many reasons. Now my life is quite boring as I go to work, go home get high, go to a friends house get high and then go... (279 words)

Do women expect the man to chase, to be sure he is interested?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4174 days ago

6 July 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - Is it the male that should do the chasing? e.g. cheeky message if they haven't messaged back, always giving them compliments,and taking the lead basically? The way I have read things is, girls will always have lads after them so they have choices and apparently, they... (151 words)

Should I tell my ex that I slept with his father for sex?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4186 days ago

6 July 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - This may sound like something off Jerry Springer, but I've been in a sexual relationship with a guy on and off for 3 years. He's very attractive, a lean, skinny, tall, hippie, mixed with Captain Morgan , James Franco looking pot head with Mick Jagger lips. He's well endowed and ... (566 words)

Should I ask my best friend to be my first kiss? How can I do this without sounding odd?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4186 days ago

6 July 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - I don't know how to go about this so I'll just ask it straight forward; how can I ask my best friend to be my first kiss without it being weird? Here is some background to help you answer, we are both bi and now out and accept each others sexuallity. He is currently in an op... (146 words)

How can I overcome my mental block towards women?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4185 days ago

6 July 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello Cupid, I’ll try to make this as short as possible. I can’t deny I have issues with women. All my life I’ve been rejected by girls and I just grew tired of it. By about mid college I stopped going after girls and just kept to myself. I’ve never had a girlfriend, I’ve... (484 words)

Desperate for advice about living situation!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4186 days ago

6 July 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Thank you for reading, I'm really struggling with this...I'll make it as brief as possible. I moved interstate 6 months ago, as I wanted a change and to live with mum (I'm 20). I have found a full-time job which I enjoy, and absolutely love living with my mum (and the abil... (212 words)

Rocky relationship and I'm not sure where he stands

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4186 days ago

6 July 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - well I am currently in a relationship and its now on the rocks we are going thru a rough patch. We were going to end it but we both talked face to face about trying to work it out. I am doing my absolute best to make this back to how it use to be, or even stronger. My bf ... (325 words)

She loves me more than I love her.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4186 days ago

6 July 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - I have been dating this girl for 1 year and 6months. She always says things like "I love you more than anything in the world" or "I will love you for ever" or "I want to be with you forever" etc. etc. Which there is nothing wrong with that but I don't feel the same way about ... (373 words)