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writes:Dear Cupid , I love my ex with all that I am made of but we went our own ways do to a lot of cheating ,fighting,and arguring.But there is one thing that I am very puzzled about I don't want to think like this but I believe his entire family believes in going to bed with each other.I heard the first two cousins were lovers.Maybe he can't be in a real relationship because he is apart of this sick act.He acts differently when we get around his sisters and brothers even his mom act funny. We planned on getting back together and start over fresh he was moving here with me he was going to get help with his PROMBLEMS and I was going to be 100 percent behind him but he starts drinking talking off the wall and I decided to hang up.Would this be great idea to have a life with this dysfunctional situation ? Help:(
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 July 2013): Thanks you all for your feedback .And yes I do have a daughter with him she is 20 years old now and that's why I thought we could make it work but now that I really think about it life is too short to be putting time an effort in a man who does really love me and this is the kind of vibe I feel cause if he did he would change his ways like he told me he would but it's over now and that's the way it's going to be.:)
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reader, MsSadie +, writes (25 July 2013):
 Why would you knowingly accept dysfunction into your life? You and this guy already broke up once, there's really no need to try it again.
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reader, CindyCares  +, writes (25 July 2013):
 Do you even have to ask ?.. no that it won't be agood idea.
And this, regardless of the incest issue, which is only a vague suspicion not a conclaimed fact ( and anyway it wpuld not be your ex's fault if his relatives have incestuous tendencies ).
stick to whta you know for a fact . that you broke up due to a lot of cheating, fighting and arguing, and frankly it's not clear to me where we can even fit " love " in all this. Plus, you know the man has a serious drinking problem, and.. do you really want to bring all this unhealthy drama into your life ?
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reader, AuntyEm  +, writes (25 July 2013):
 'Would this be great idea to have a life with this dysfunctional situation ?'
NO it would NOT be a good idea. Why are you even in a relationship with someone with so many problems and with whome you argue and fight all the time?...It could be that you either think he will suddenly change into prince charming or that you are in love with the attention and drama!!
Is he all you can get?...and the whole incest thing...You think that's a good idea...really??
You only get one life...is this how you want to live it?
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