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Archived questions from: 5 July, 2013 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Would you change your religion for love?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 3170 days ago

5 July 2013 (F)

age - Ok,this is probably not the smartest question, having been spurred by the vision of a Sex and the City rerun, but I'd be curious to know the opinion of my esteemed DC colleagues and readers : would you change religion for love ? why, or why not ? The story is this : Charlo... (331 words)

What's up with me and my friend? Am I gay?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4149 days ago

5 July 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I am caught up in a situation which I'm confused about. Basically I was married and my husband left me since then i have got really close to my best friend (who is a girl) she has a boyfriend that treats her like crap and they constantly argue and are forget breaking up, ... (438 words)

Still fuming after fiasco over holiday with my future in laws and fiance. Should I not be angry or let it go?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4153 days ago

5 July 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - By nature I am a planner. My future in laws cut their stay with us short because my fiance called and told them I go crazy when we have company over. That is view of me anyway. Remember that, I am a planner where my fiance is not. The background story is we live in a rural ... (923 words)

My crush talked to me today and I'm so happy - how do I initiate another conversation?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4155 days ago

5 July 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi aunts and uncles Something really great happened to me today! The guy I've had a crush on for months Talked to me! He talked to me because my friend introduced me to him, what he said was not much but I am so happy! He said my name and looked me right into the eyes! Right ... (113 words)

I feel slightly weird that my girlfriend follows my best friend on Instagram

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4156 days ago

5 July 2013 (M)

age 41-50 - Is it normal for girlfriend to follow your friends on instagram? My best friend is on Instagram. I don't have an account so I really don't know too much about it. But my GF does have instagram, and I noticed that she follows my best friend. Not that she had to tell me, but ... (123 words)

LDR ex dumped me without an explanation and it really bothers me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4150 days ago

5 July 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - My ex of 5 years dumped me without any explanation. We were in a long distance relationship. He still said he loved me and missed me a month before he broke up with me. I have no idea why he would change so st. He never contacted me after the breakup. I kinda accept the fact ... (85 words)

Am I being paranoid or is my boyfriend dedicating poetry to another girl?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4155 days ago

5 July 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok first of all he is currently visiting his family in colombia it's been a month since he left and there's still another month until he comes back. That being said let me continue... ok, so my boyfriend is really into poetry and stuff and always post stuff he likes of other fa... (225 words)

My ex dumped me and hasn't been in touch since, but I miss him and want to contact him

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4150 days ago

5 July 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I was with my ex for four years. He dumped me two months ago. I was mad and hated him the first month, but I started missing him like crazy recently. He never contacted me after the break up, never asked what I'm up to or how I am. I don't have the intention to get back with ... (78 words)

Should I be glad to have a good friend as a partner but not a lover?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4145 days ago

5 July 2013 (F)

age - I feel so sad. I feel like I lost something. My partner of 4 yrs just does not make love to me anymore. He says it hurts him when he tries but does not bother or care about my needs. He went to Dr and said he can't take pills because of side effects. He was very casual about it ... (283 words)

My husband is so forgetful that sometimes I feel like I'm talking to a brick wall.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4156 days ago

5 July 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - My Husband is so forgetful! I really don't know what to do! Anything important that I tell him, He just can't take it in. He'll be talking about it that day and then a few weeks later he'll be like 'I wasn't aware of that.' For example, This month we're moving to a new flat as ... (402 words)

Should I pay towards my girlfriend's second holiday this year despite other important financial commitments

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4151 days ago

5 July 2013 (M)

age 41-50 - become less dramatic after some close calls in terms of our relationship that neither of us want to repeat. In short, we’re able to deal with and adapt to each other’s dominant personalities and the problems they produce between us much better. However, I still find occas... (716 words)

Why do people think that women are more emotional in relationships, more clingy, needy and attached after sex?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4156 days ago

5 July 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - Why do people think that women are more emotional in relationships, more clingy, needy and attached after sex? Why do women have this stereotype when so often I see men becoming engrossed with their female partners after a sexual relationship has started? Men are often more ... (108 words)

I love my partner but don't like his mother and am concerned about our future

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4155 days ago

5 July 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - My partners mother is the most annoying, argumentative, ignorant person I have ever met but I adore my partner. We work well as a team, love each other very much and have a lot in common. Recently, there has been a change in our conversation about marriage from 'if' we get m... (155 words)

Why my husband won't show me affection in bed?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4156 days ago

5 July 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - Why my husband won't show me affection in bed? He talked about al of his exes and how he would please them knowing they cheated on him but knowing I'm loyal he makes me feel like a call girl just in it to get his rocks off. He knows nothing that turns me on and what I do tell ... (157 words)

My beloved uncle has passed away and I don't know how to carry on with life now

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4156 days ago

5 July 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - My uncle was diagnosed with cancer five weeks ago, and he died two days ago. I have been having nightmares about when I saw him in hospital with the oxygen mask on. I wanted to see him in hospital, but it was very difficult. It was heart breaking seeing him so ill and weak. I ... (624 words)

She asked me to take her home but then wound up blowing me off. I thought it was rude!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4155 days ago

5 July 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - I met a girl in a bar last week and we hit it off - I am 25 and she is 22. I gave her my number and she got in touch with me. We had dinner on Tuesday and she said it was the nicest date she ever had. I stayed at her house after and took to work the next morning. We h... (435 words)

Our son is confused about his sexuality. How can we help him?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4154 days ago

5 July 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - We live in Stockport, in Greater Manchester, and have a 20 year old son. He told us last night he was confused about himself sexually. Not professionally. He's enjoying his university studies in business systems and marketing - wants to go into PR or marketing for Manchester ... (422 words)

Is this friendship even worth it?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4078 days ago

5 July 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - My oldest friend (a gay guy) from high school has changed. He complained that I always cancel but I've had bad morning sickness from an unplanned pregnancy and also trying to figure out what to do. I tried explaining my situation and never got an answer. Yet I see on Facebook ... (85 words)

Is he hiding something? Should I approach him with it or keep it to myself?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4155 days ago

5 July 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been dating my boyfriend for three years now and I love him completely. We discuss marriage from time to time once he finishes university. In the time I've dated him he has never given me true cause to doubt his faithfulness to me. However, I have problems with trust ... (352 words)

I have strong feelings for two women, not sure which way to turn

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4151 days ago

5 July 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - I've been with a girl (Lisa) since Uni, for just over 7 years. She's really a great girl who I have semi moved in with. She's a country girl who's quite shy but made the first move on me back when we started, and from that point on things were great. I moved back home from uni... (1420 words)

We are not dating but his level of interest has dropped! I like him alot. How should I proceed?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4155 days ago

5 July 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - I am so lost right now, and it seems like I can anticipate the type of advice I will receive, but I think I will ask it anyway. I really have no where to turn to. So there was a phone app, and this guy that lives about a six hour drive contacted me. We immediately matched up ... (617 words)

Should I not move in with the friend of my ex? We are dating and I love him!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4156 days ago

5 July 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - Please help me, Cupid! I have this great boyfriend and his name is Mark. We've been going out for seven months now, and I just thought about this: I'm gonna move in with one of my ex-boyfriend's friends! Thinking about it now, I really don't wanna do that. It seems ... (206 words)

My parents are forcing me to chose either them or the girl!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4155 days ago

5 July 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm 23, male. I met this mentally challenged girl (21 y.o.) about six months ago. Before I met her I was a very lonely person. I never had many friends. Those whom I trusted always betrayed me in some way or the other. This girl changed my life. She needed me because her ... (215 words)

He does not trust me and always accuses me of cheating! And advice on how to change this pls?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4156 days ago

5 July 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey guys, so my boyfriend of about almost two years and I for the most part do pretty great. The problem is he has had a pretty bad experience with one of his ex girlfiends cheating on him now he is almost always accusing me of cheating when I'm not ! He just says all girls ... (199 words)

I'm having erections during the day. Is it because I'm young or have a high sex drive?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4156 days ago

5 July 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello I'm 22 yrs old and I haven't had sex yet. My question is: I noticed that I have few erections when asleep and especially in morning which last for half or maybe an hour.also during the day I have erections ( not too many). Does this happen because I'm young guy or do I ... (66 words)

How handle a married co-worker who has a crush on me? And should I tell my husband? Help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4156 days ago

5 July 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - I am married and working with a married guy who shows some interests in me and I strongly believe that even worse than that he should be a player. I guess I gave him the wrong impression with being friendly. I do not want to have anything with this guy, that's why I started to ... (230 words)

I'm in love with my married bestfriend and I don't want to lose her friendship. Please help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4156 days ago

5 July 2013 (M)

age 51-59 - Since my divorce. I have not dated anyone. It seemed that everyone else had love and I was alone. I met someone that became my best friend. Her and I spend every second together. I fell in love with this girl so hard it made me sick. Here is the problem. She is married. ... (303 words)

How can I show him I am interested without appearing too eager?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4156 days ago

5 July 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I met a guy last Friday at a bar.. we had mutual friends so we chatted - at one point he even implied i was too pretty to be at the club and asked if i was there with my boyfriend. When I said no we continued to chat and at the end of the night he asked for my number because he ... (219 words)