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Archived questions from: 18 July, 2013 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

He has a girlfriend but I can't get him off my mind

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4143 days ago

18 July 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - hello,i'm in love with a frnd who has a girl frnd and they have been dating for 4 yrs.i really love him and he said he loves me too but he dosn't want to hurt his gf.we have kissed on two occassions. wat can i do about this situation please.i jst can't get him off my mind.... (57 words)

My girlfriend no longer wants to date or hang out, just wants sex

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4142 days ago

18 July 2013 (M)

age 41-50 - I have a problem that really shouldn't be a problem for a guy of my age. Me and my girlfriend have been dating for about 6 months we had intercourse about 1 month ago. Up until that point our relationship had been great we were very affectionate and had had oral sex but never ... (147 words)

I came on to my female boss while drunk. She was sober and didn't stop me! Now what?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4132 days ago

18 July 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm a 19 year old lesbian and I've been attracted to my 56 year old boss for nearly 2 years now. She's married and has 3 grown children, her family is a church-going Christian family, and she'd made it clear that she doesn't agree with my "lifestyle choice". I'm an open minded ... (803 words)

We both made mistakes thats we shouldnt have , how do we go about fixing the relatioship

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4142 days ago

18 July 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I was dating this guy we had been dating 5 months he moved in about the 3rd month we was dating. In June we was fighting constantly mainly me finding things to bitch about. We broke up Tuesday on our 5 month I wanted to break up. He's still staying with me he was supposed to ... (560 words)

We broke up because of distance not because we weren't in love. Its so hard!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4142 days ago

18 July 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - Hello. I would like to ask for some advice if possible. Myself and my girlfriend have just split up due to her moving back to Italy and me being forced to stay here in Ireland. We discussed this at length and decided that things would be better in the long run if we didn't... (253 words)

I don't care that she's hanging out with her ex(s) during college vacation -- red flag that I should break up with her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4142 days ago

18 July 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - I started dating a girl, pretty seriously (commitment to each other) shortly before college vacation. We have now been apart about 2 months, with approx 1 more month to go. We are thousands of miles apart. I rarely use Facebook, but when I today did I came across photos o... (305 words)

Is my girlfriend trying to change for me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4142 days ago

18 July 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - This is going to be really complicated, so please bear with me...... I've been with my girlfriend for 2 years. She is 20, I am 26. I am in college, as is she. We are in a lot of classes together because we are in the same degree program. Initially our relationship was... (1184 words)

How do I help my friend who keeps getting involved with the wrong men!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4142 days ago

18 July 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, I need advice on how to better understand and help a close friend of mine, to whom I’ve been an agony aunt since our teenage years. First of all, I’m not super-woman. I’ve had my own share of heartbreak and loneliness. It just happened that some of my friends rely on me an... (350 words)

If its meant to be will it be?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4142 days ago

18 July 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I wanted to get everyone's opinion on a topic- I was in an abusive relationship for about five years until I left and was brave enough to know that was not acceptable. I since have moved on have tried to date other people but i haven't forgotten this guy i used to work with ... (395 words)

Why would he just disappear when things seemed to be going so well?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4141 days ago

18 July 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I have this guy, we started talking last year. We met last year as well, and things were really good, then he moved back to his home state for a year, and we still continued talking and having an on and off long-distance thing for the whole year. A week ago, he said he was ... (236 words)

My American wife green eyes scare me during sex

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4142 days ago

18 July 2013 (M)

age 41-50 - I'm Pakistan and two months back I came to US on fiance visa to marry my American Fiance whom I met through internet. We got married one month ago. I'm 33 and my wife is 34. She is beautiful, caring and loving. I have been confronting a very strange problem which is her green ... (147 words)

I found out my boyfriend called me fat when we first met and it hurts!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4142 days ago

18 July 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello, I´ve been with my bf for 2 years and everything´s beautiful and sweet, we don´t fight, we just love each other. At least, I thought so...Yesterday I found out something, that turns my all ideas about our ideal relationship upside down.. Me and my bf met for the first ti... (237 words)

Played or too clingy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4139 days ago

18 July 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - Am I just being played or am I clingy . Right I met this girl at work a month and half ago, she was new.. we got chatting on email and she seemed keen to meet up, she wanted to go a rave I was going to, I invited her but said we should go on a date first.. anyway day of th... (334 words)

I'm moving back soon to my LDR boyfriend but am feeling sparks for a guy where I am now!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4143 days ago

18 July 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been in a relationship with by boyfriend for three years now. I know for certain and without any doubts that I love him. We have been through so much together and have so many beautiful memories and I love him dearly. However, we have been in a long distance relationship ... (403 words)

LDR problem, I love him dearly but not sure if he loves me, and don't know what to do. Should I keep on waiting?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4143 days ago

18 July 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I met my Aussie boyfriend 2 and a half years ago. He first flew here and chased after me after 2 months of talking. I was very smitten. We had our ups and downs in our LDR and 16 months forward he flew me to Aus for the first time and took me everywhere, all expenses... (770 words)

Girlfriend takes medication for depression and is no longer into sex

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4143 days ago

18 July 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - just a quick question. my girlfriend is on zoloft for depression and it's really effecting her sex drive. before the medication, our sex was incredible. it was all the time and extremely good! now she's not interested in sex, and when we have it, she says it just doesn't feel ... (100 words)

I want to give my boyfriend the best blow job in the morning, any tips how can I start?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4143 days ago

18 July 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay, so my boyfriend always tell me that It would be great if I give him a bj in the morning. But can anyone tell me how will I start? I'm afraid that when I start it in the morning he will stop me because he is still sleepy or not in the mood, you know. What time is the best? ... (80 words)

Am I just not date-able?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4143 days ago

18 July 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been single for a year now and I am starting to get really frustrated with it. I am a attractive and interesting 22 year old girl. I am over weight, but I, and other guys I know find my body very sexy because of it's shape; I'm very hour glass. I never get asked out on ... (166 words)

Friend wants to visit with her husband, and I don't want him in my home

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4143 days ago

18 July 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - My best friend wants to visit me, but she's invited her husband (without saying anything to me) and I don't like him! I haven't seen my best friend in about 4 years, she wants to visit me this Fall, but her husband is jealous, and doesn't trust her, or me-since he figu... (222 words)

Unresolvable boyfriend: should I wait and see if he comes back or shall I forget him once and for all?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4143 days ago

18 July 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - I returned to my ex at the beginning of this year after being separated for 13 years, we were in our late teens and he was my first boyfriend and back then too many people got involved in our relationship. We never stopped loving each other and when we reconnected we instantly ... (259 words)

How do I become better at dating?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3399 days ago

18 July 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - I'm 27, have Asperger's syndrome, do some voluntary work with disabled adults, and voluntary IT work for a living, and live in the United Kingdom. However, my problem is in regard to dating; for me it's hard to get a girlfriend. Maybe it's because of my own ethics; I know... (438 words)

I want him to be my first kiss, should I move on or wait?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3896 days ago

18 July 2013 (F)

age 22-25 - There is this guy in my year at school and we are good friends we flirt a bit but it's really awkward because everyone in our year knows that at some point one of us has fancied the other.I still fancy him but I'm not sure he fancies me. We are at the age were everyone in our ... (128 words)

Why did he react that way to my confession ? Please help me to understand...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4143 days ago

18 July 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello ! So here it is, sorry in advance for the length of this message... but I'd really need an enlightenment on this :/ I'm at university and I met a guy almost a year ago in class: he is the one that approached me at school. We talked, he asked for my number, and star... (756 words)

Is he really making sense or am I downright stupid?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4142 days ago

18 July 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok so my Ex and i spoke about the problems we had, we also had sex he wants to take baby steps in getting back together i don't know why am starting to feel like its a game he's playing because he is still communicating with the girl that he cheated on me with knowing that ... (323 words)

I think I'm gay, but people can't just turn gay over the years, can they?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4130 days ago

18 July 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - Dear agony aunts, I think I'm gay, I'm 23 and for years I have been having gay thoughts and fantasies which arouses me and sometimes I can't help but mastubate to them but then I feel wrong somehow. I used to have a few girlfriends when I was younger (16 and I was attracted to ... (119 words)

Love is just something I really want to have, but it seems that it works out for everyone else except me.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4143 days ago

18 July 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - I am turning 21 and I have never kissed a girl. I think about this all the time, and it makes me really uncomfortable. I am literally the only one among my friends/people my age I've met, and I feel isolated. People tell me I'm a great guy and girls would be lucky to have me, ... (219 words)

How do I tackle my co-worker who is trying to sabotage me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4143 days ago

18 July 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear Cupid My office colleague/team member always eyeing for my position. I took vacation for days back with my bf. After i came back from my vacation i feel difference in work environment. He took hold of my position acting as if he is my boss now, withholding informatio... (130 words)

Should I stop texting him and wait for him to make plans with me? Or should I just move on?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4143 days ago

18 July 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi everyone! For about a month now I've been seeing this guy casually. When we hang out together, it's awesome- he shows so much interest and I can tell that he's really into me, and I'm really into him as well. However, for the past week he's barely texted me/called me or ... (126 words)

I'm four months pregnant and I've just discovered my boyfriend's excessive porn use, much of which involves extreme stuff

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4137 days ago

18 July 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Yesterday I used my boyfriend's ipad (with his permission) and came across a search for a porn site. When I clicked on his history to see more, I saw that he watches porn (alot of it) every single day. There were at least 50 links per day, and seeing as we have been home ... (685 words)

Went on a trip with my LDR and now he doesn't call

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4143 days ago

18 July 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear Cupid I am in LDR with my bf of 3 years for the past 6 months. We went for a trip few days back and had a very nice time. Few times he was cranky, but otherwise trip was a success. Its been a week, he hasnt called me once or returned by messages. Picks up occasional... (217 words)

Having trouble adapting to a much more aggressive culture

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4141 days ago

18 July 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - i need advice please.im asian and married to a german man, we are already 10 years together. I dont have problem with my husband, he is ok to me. im living here in germany with my husband for nearly 3 years.my problem is the people here. im still having a hard time to adjust to ... (329 words)

Was this discrimination? Should we make a complaint?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4143 days ago

18 July 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm a student about to turn 23 and heading into final year of college along with most of my close friends and we are currently looking for accomodation to live in close to college for the academic year. I have a physical disability and I cant walk too far and three of my ... (216 words)

Did I ruin things by telling my boyfriend that he has a "grower"?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4143 days ago

18 July 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - me and my boyfriend were getting intimate for the first time. He has quite a small penis but it grew really large when turned on, and much larger than I saw a penis grow to compared to its size when soft. so when I saw what size it was becoming, I was taken aback and ... (210 words)