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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Why are all of these girls bumping into me?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3428 days ago

2 July 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - I have a while ago come off a diet where I lost a lot of weight. Until then I had been very obese since childhood and never seemed to attract the opposite sex. However, now it is looking like that has changed and since my weight loss, I am finding that girls are looking and at ... (258 words)

My virgin boyfriend can't stay hard to have sex and makes me feel totally unattractive

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4156 days ago

2 July 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm 17, nearly 18 and I've been dating my boyfriend for about 3 and a half months. I was not a virgin when I first started dating him - I lost my virginity to my ex boyfriend - but my current boyfriend is still a virgin. At the beginning of our relationship we discussed this, ... (783 words)

My boyfriend only has female friends. Is this weird?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4189 days ago

2 July 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Is it Normal for my boyfriend to only have female friends? I mean he only has like 2 guy friends the rest are females he is always calling and texting them it's sort of annoying . I don't think he is sleeping with them or anything like that, most are married but he has more ... (101 words)

Four years of dating and he just dumped me! No explanation!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4189 days ago

2 July 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - My ex and I were together for four years. We were very serious camouflage our relationship. However,he dumped me three months ago. I don't even know why. I asked for closure yet he gave me nothing. He never contacted me after we broke up. I've been wondering what I did wrong. ... (86 words)

Does anyone have any experience with the implant?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4190 days ago

2 July 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi aunts and uncle, Feeling a bit fed up right now. Went to my doctors recently and he told me I should go on birth control, he suggested the pill but I explained I had tried them before and I didn't like them (I don't really like taking tablets regularly). He then suggeste... (356 words)

Surely I'm worth an Engagement Ring.. Aren't I??

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4188 days ago

2 July 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - I am going through such an emotional roller coaster right now, I am desperate for unbiased advise. My boyfriend and I have been together for going on 6 years. We long distance dating at the beginning but after about 6months I moved to be with him in Texas, Im from Canada. ... (610 words)

My girlfriend has a strange issue with food?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4189 days ago

2 July 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - This is probably a rather weird question, but I was at a BBQ with my girlfriend, and the food was being served to us. Someone handed her a plate, and it had a small amount of corn on it. She freaked out, refused to look at it, and asked me to remove it from view. That wasnt ... (177 words)

How can I get my ex to offer his sperm for IVF

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4189 days ago

2 July 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - What do you all think about a woman having ivf at 45. I've always been waiting for the right moment and just out of another failed long term relationship and always wanted babies, always feel like I have missed out on that opportunity of being a Mother. I have found out this ... (146 words)

Just left an abusive relationship; will love ever feel good?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4188 days ago

2 July 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - About 18 months ago, I was in a vulnerable place, struggling to recover from some severe depression and anxiety issues which had landed me in the hospital for a bit. I was lonely, and desperately wanted to know what love really felt like; I wanted to know what it was like to ... (712 words)

My boyfriend has lied so much in the past that I don't know if he can truly change.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4170 days ago

2 July 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Guys please help! I am in a relationship with this guy for 3 years now. 1.5 years were long distance.. it was a mess. He was a casanova during his college years before he asked me out. He had nothing but girls in his life. He even lied to me about his flings and past and I wa... (437 words)

I like my male friend but he just told me he wanted to go visit another girl.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4189 days ago

2 July 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm starting to have romantic feelings for one of my guy friends and recently he mentioned in one of our conversations that he would really like to travel to see this other mutual friend (a girl) that lives in a different state. Lately we have been talking more often about ea... (140 words)

My boyfriend still lives with his parents and I wonder if he'll ever grow up.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4189 days ago

2 July 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - So...I have been dating a guy for going on 2 years. He has lived at home the entire time. He has zero privacy as his bedroom is next to his moms. His dad basically lives in the basement. His dad has a bedroom and living room and bathroom down stairs. So, here's my dilemma. I ... (308 words)

I'm back with my ex but I'm worried he's still lying to me.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4190 days ago

2 July 2013 (F)

age - My ex asked me back after he came back from holiday with a woman who he says he dated only once and ended the relationship on their second meeting. He also had her picture as his screen saver which was taken at her house in her kitchen and was still on his phone when he came ... (186 words)

My new fiancé is reluctant for me to visit my late husband's parents.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4189 days ago

2 July 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - I am widowed and have become engaged. My fiancé and I took a short trip over the weekend. My late husband's sister called me on my cell to let me know that her dad (my father-in-law) had two strokes and that he was in the hospital. We happened to be 45 minutes away. ... (380 words)

My friend wants me to fail at being a mum

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4185 days ago

2 July 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - My closest friend has a 2 and half yr old daughter. I wasnt there for her as much as I would like to have been because I had a bike accident a week after she had the baby and couldnt get out and about for a good 3-4 months, but I did visit as often as I could. By the time I was ... (625 words)

Could it be that my friend has abandonment issues from the past? What can I do, considering she may take her cheater back, again?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4190 days ago

2 July 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - I'm concerned for a friend she is totally paranoid her boyfriend will cheat on her and after losing her father to alcoholism related disease I think she has issues. Two years ago there was evidence her boyfriend cheated on her but he wormed his way out of it and she beli... (107 words)

Bossy & emotional mother in law!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4190 days ago

2 July 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - I dated my husband for 6 years my mother in law was not that bad until we got married 3 years ago she changed to this emotional, bossy woman...she alwyas call my hudband "baby" even tough my husband told her not to...she told my husband to answer her "Yes Mam" whenever we at ... (499 words)

Spots on my scrotum that go away. Is this normal?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4190 days ago

2 July 2013 (M)

age 26-29 - Hello, I recently I have noticed 2 spots on my scrotum they are facial looking ones they don't hurt as I don't even know they are there untill I look I have this before they cleared up I just wanted to ask someone about this is this normal??... (51 words)

My fiance is not affectionate, or am I asking for too much?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4188 days ago

2 July 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone, I have been in a relationship with my fiance for 3 years now. For two years now we have been having fights for the same reason. And because this same reason causes a fight I try to avoid bringing it up to kill it once and for all. This thing I want to ki... (627 words)

Boyfriend upset because I talk to men on facebook!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4185 days ago

2 July 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - my boyfriend is getting annoyed with men who speak to me on facebook. I put a status up and the same people will comment all of the time. I put a new picture on and the give me all these compliments and its really getting on his nerves. He messaged my frienss dad telling him ... (250 words)

I feel like he sometimes uses his condition as a scapegoat to allow him to do nothing all day.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4189 days ago

2 July 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi...I have been having a problem lately with my boyfriend who has been very sick for several months now with symptoms of Crohn's disease. We have been together 2 1/2 years and live together. We have always gotten along well, even now although I have been constantly either ... (407 words)

B/f masturbates before he sees me and then doesn't want sex!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4189 days ago

2 July 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello agony aunts thank you for always answering my questions and helping me with my problems. I am here today because I have an issue with my boyfriend of almost 2 years. He tells me he has a bad habit of jacking off before he sees me. And so when hes with me we don't have ... (117 words)

We've been dating but she can't give me a straight answer! Do I keep trying?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4190 days ago

2 July 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - I've dating a girl for the past 3 month and seen her occasionally. This is the 3rd time in a 4 year period we've attempted to date. I'll stick to the details of this 3rd attempt. Sorry if it's too long but I need to blow some steam. So after 5 dates we had started kissing,... (767 words)

GFs job is driving our relationship into the ditch.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4190 days ago

2 July 2013 (M)

age 41-50 - GF is in a job that makes her miserable, that she's privileged enough not to need, and yet keeps going at it. Spends day whimpering and feeling sorry for herself.How do I "invite" her to get her act together without getting dumped? (has sorta happened before with a friend) ... (403 words)

How do I explain when comments about other women are out of line?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4189 days ago

2 July 2013 (F) age 36-40 - Gonna get straight to the point. I'm bisexual, I've never actually dated a girl, fooled around in college a little more than i probably shouldve. fast forward some years, and now its me and my fiance, he and I. We have the sort of relationship that seems sorta open sexually but ... (350 words)

Worried that ex friend is vengeful after she found me on facebook.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4190 days ago

2 July 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello dear Aunts, Thank you for being here for every problem all of us have. Well my problem is about an ex-friend of mine. She was mean and abusive (both psychological and physical abuse), so i ended the friendship and moved away about a year and a half ago. Now my life has ... (165 words)

Am I overreacting here? Or do men do this??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4190 days ago

2 July 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Ok, my bf and I have been together for 3 years. He's 35 and I'm 31. We've hit a rough patch the past year, where we've had more fights and just can't seem to get along as much anymore. Sometimes when I ask him a question he won't give me a full answer, but just an "answer" that ... (358 words)

I found condoms in my girlfriends drawer but we don't use them since she is on the pill

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4190 days ago

2 July 2013 (M)

age 41-50 - im in a 1 year 3 month long distance relationship with my girlfriend. we see each other every two months due to school and work and we live in different countries. I have been her first one and she is on the pill so we dont use any kind of protection except for the pill. last ... (188 words)