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Archived questions from: 22 July, 2013 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Should I fake it till I make it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4137 days ago

22 July 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - i need advice-should i fake it til i make it? been with my fiance 3yrs and we had our first baby 6 months ago. at first, we maintained our sex life (i didn't want intercourse as i was scared it would hurt, but enjoyed giving him bjs). but then on one occasion, he got carried ... (592 words)

Deep affection for my best friend who's a married guy

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4139 days ago

22 July 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - hi there i first met my guy at a work conference two years ago of around 500 delegates. a bit deal for us. i wasn't listed to go but applied for a sit in position at the last minute, past the submission deadline, nevertheless, i got a spot. we first locked eyes at an eve... (786 words)

I want her back so much, but am I reading things right?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4139 days ago

22 July 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I came on here a few months ago, because my girlfreind dumped me after her dad got into a tragic accident and was left very badly hurt and needing help 24/7. It has been 4.5 months since the split, and we have recently been meeting up again. We have met up 3 times and o... (232 words)

What do guys visualise during sex?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4136 days ago

22 July 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi just a quick qn about men and sex! Sorry if its crude :-) Sometimes when I have sex with my boyfriend and he is behind me doing all the work doggy style I look back and he has his eyes open. Then when I am on top doing the work he keeps his eyes closed! Is this him vi... (190 words)

Guy seems to date a girl but still makes eye contact with me

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4138 days ago

22 July 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi Everyone, There is this one guy in school whom I met the first time on the train as we both came from the airport back to the dorm together. We saw each other from time to time and in the beginning, made brief gestures to say hello, either mumming it or with a nod and a... (296 words)

Decided to end the relationship then he sprung a trip on me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4139 days ago

22 July 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been with my boyfriend for almost 3 years. I have not been happy for quite a while and I finally made the decision to finish the relationship when I was on a short vacation with my family last week. However, I got back to find out he has joined forces with his parents ... (264 words)

Does my sister fit the "passive-aggressive" label?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4139 days ago

22 July 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Does anyone know someone with passive aggressive personality disorder? I believe my sister has this. She has always caused trouble, not so much now she's moved out. I will describe her behaviour which has started becoming quite obvious to me that it isn't normal. - LOVES s... (170 words)

"Girlfriends before friends" -- why?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4136 days ago

22 July 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi I want honest opinons in this. I;ve read so many questions about female friends being ditched their male friend gets a gf and I notice in every single one people say, "so they should" "girlfriends come first" etc. I have been on the receiving end of this an it truely hur... (417 words)

Advice for job interviews?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4138 days ago

22 July 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, right this isn;t really a relationship question but I wondered if you could still give me some advice. I have a job interview coming up, and I also have to do an assessment centre before hand. I've been to one before and failed miserably as it was mainly who could shout the ... (438 words)

I have a great husband and family but can't forget a guy from my past

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4121 days ago

22 July 2013 (?) age 36-40 - Am a 26 year old lady married with 2 kids. I have everything I want. Am educated/smart, Great hot husband with enough income, 2 amazing kids, lots of sex with my husband but I still can't get over a guy I met 3 yrs ago. He is married too and I know nothing can ever happen ... (338 words)

My long-term boyfriend is not the one for me. How do I go about breaking up with him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4139 days ago

22 July 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I am 28 and feel like I want to end my 4 year relationship, but I'm so scared of hurting him I've been putting it off. I have been thinking this for a while but ignored it thinking it would just be a phase, but I know now it isn't. But to him it will probably come out of ... (119 words)

The girl I've been dating has basically asked me to be on standby in case it doesn't work out with her ex

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4138 days ago

22 July 2013 (M)

age 41-50 - So i have been seeing this girl for a month or two. We have had sex multiple times and tells me after the first night that she wants me to be her's. I stay the same and i go on vacation and she doesn't tell me whats going on. I come to find out she talked to her ex and he wants ... (249 words)

My mother is dating a man the same age as my fiance, who on top of everything is rude and pokes fun at my fiance's height

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4139 days ago

22 July 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - My mother is turning 60 next year but she is dating (secretly she thinks but everyone knows) a man the same age as my 35 year old husband to be. I'm 29 and I think a 35 year old is an acceptable age for my future husband. I do not think my almost 60 yr old mother should b... (290 words)

My best male friend has cut me out of his life after his wife got jealous

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 4139 days ago

22 July 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - My male friend and I have been best friends ever since High School. We are both grown around our 30's now and we've been talking on the phone and emailing each other past years, I'am married with 2 kids and he just got married last year and a baby on the way. He was always ... (367 words)

My husband says he's totally against cheating but I've found out that he made a pass at my mum. During our marriage he has also slept with a 17-y.o.

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4130 days ago

22 July 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - hi, my husband and I have been together for 19yrs now, we have two children 3yr and 6yr. my husband has always talked about his strong morals especially over affairs he has said that even a kiss is a passionate moment and in his views is as good as an affair. my trust for ... (365 words)

Guys I like tend to run for the hills and I'm not sure what I might be doing wrong.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4139 days ago

22 July 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm a 27 year old girl and I've been single now for almost 18 months. I know. To some, it might not seem like a long time but I'm starting to get lonely and, being the age I am, I'd like to settle down soon with someone. There's just one problem. Whenever I like someone, th... (393 words)

I'm worried about her and want to know that she's ok but not sure how to go about contacting her

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4140 days ago

22 July 2013 (M)

age 51-59 - It's a long story, but I met someone about a year ago through a social group for people with anxiety issues. Due to some commonalities in our lives and situations we bonded and got very close very quickly. She has had bad luck with men. She's in her forties but has never had ... (437 words)

Is it normal that my feelings swing from being in love with my boyfriend to not feeling so in love with him and thinking about my former long-term crush?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4139 days ago

22 July 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hay everybody, the mess i'm in right now is a bit complicated and i really hope someone could give me some useful advice. I'm 23 and before i met my current boyfriend of 4 months i've had a crush on one guy for 4 years. I've actually been single because i was hoping he ... (718 words)