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Archived questions from: 28 July, 2013 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Should I tell the guy I'm seeing that I slept with my ex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4132 days ago

28 July 2013 (?) age 36-40 - Hi, Dated a guy a few months back who left me for someone that he met on a business trip. However, he didnt just tell me straight out he made up some excuse that he didnt love me abd wanted to make sure he had found the right person before settling down - he left me upset an... (478 words)

My girlfriend has pictures of her ex in the apartment even though I have asked her more than once to take them down

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4132 days ago

28 July 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - Ok so my girlfriend of 3 months got an apartment about just over a month ago and she put up pictures of her and her 2 year old daughter around her apartment and asked what I thought about them. I noticed a couple pics up in her room of her daughter and one of her ex's and he's ... (141 words)

I suck at riding my man. Can someone explain the motion to me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4132 days ago

28 July 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Every time I try to have sex in the woman on top position it feels awkward. I feel like I'm not moving properly and it doesn't feel good for my boyfriend. I tried to watch porn videos and read about it to learn how to move but it's not helpful. Usually he ends up just doing the ... (143 words)

I told my girlfriend's friend she was hot, and now there is friction between them

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4132 days ago

28 July 2013 (M)

age 41-50 - Dear cupid, Just eight days ago , I said to my girlfriend's close friend , in front of her, that "Oh my God, you are one hell of a hot girl." . Her friend just smiled whereas my girlfriend said "Enough" . Ever since that happened, my girlfriend has not been talking... (133 words)

Have I just been asked out or not?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4132 days ago

28 July 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - Can anyone - preferably male - shed any light on how a man who is otherwise very confident will behave when he is supremely shy with women, and very very rarely takes interest in a woman in the sense of being attracted to her? I ask because I'm not sure if someone notoriously ... (743 words)

My dog doesn't get along with his dog

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4132 days ago

28 July 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - Hello I really need some help with this. I have two dogs one female one male. My Partner has one. we have been together for sometime now BUT my male dog when introduced to his keeps going for him. This is starting to put a strain on our relationship. I don't want to have to ... (91 words)

She won't cooperate in getting the divorce finalized in my country too

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4133 days ago

28 July 2013 (M)

age 41-50 - I think I have posted many times about my American wife who came to Pakistan and after six months wanted a divorce. Few days back, US state superior court gave her divorce as she hired a very skilled attorney . Despite marriage happened in Pakistan, she got divorce in US. She ... (205 words)

My wife wants to re-establish contact with her bad news family

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4132 days ago

28 July 2013 (M)

age 41-50 - I have a dilemma. My wife has a very disfunctional family. Her mother took off when she was two never to be seen from again, and her father has been in and out of her life for her 30 years. She was raised by her fathers parents and his sister. Her grandfather passed twelve ... (237 words)

I'm confused and don't understand the behavior of my ex

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4132 days ago

28 July 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - What is wrong with my ex ?.I'm confused. He is the one who contacts me first most of the time ( I hardly contact him, but he contacts me every few weeks to see how I am doing ). He contacted me on Wednesday last week, and asked me if I wanted to go for a drink with him, so I ... (516 words)

What do I do to keep him chasing me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4133 days ago

28 July 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I have known this guy for a year n half we were pretty close. Recently he has given me excuses that is far too busy to msg me i let it slide he may be telling the truth. I have his other number i see him online on whatsapp at stupid times. Anyway i confronted him about th... (467 words)

Do guys notice the signs that girls give off when flirting/trying to get the attention of complete strangers?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4133 days ago

28 July 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - I have been looking at the flirting/giving signals of interest from girls to complete strangers. This is what I seemed to notice: they could probably happen anywhere, but these are where I was. At the big supermarkets, if a guy she is not interested in, stands around ne... (229 words)

How do people cope with being plain looking?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4132 days ago

28 July 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Has anyone else ever had this? At 21 I was really good looking, then at 23 I noticed my face changing, not aging like wrinkles just started to look like another family member (one I didn't want to look like) I was still fairly good looking then. At 25, 3 months before my... (158 words)

What do I say or do to make my ex realize he has to chose between his ex girlfriend and me? I need to move on!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4133 days ago

28 July 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi I broke up with my ex bf about 3 years ago I still have strong feeling for him but I no nothing with happen again. He now has a new gf and I have started slowly but finally moving on but lately I have been getting messages from him laughing,joking and being nice. And he ... (165 words)

Should I let my sister and her family stay at my family home? I don't trust her.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4133 days ago

28 July 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - My sister wants to stay with my husband and I starting next week. Her, her boyfriend and their three children all under the age of 12 want to crash at our place, she says for 4 nights. I said, we could discuss staying if she had secured arrangements for that 4th night. She ... (383 words)

How can I get talking to this guy I like or perhaps even ask him out?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4128 days ago

28 July 2013 (?) age 51-59 - I have been trying to get healthier and since I am not dating and am retired I devote more time to myself. I don't go to the gym or anything but I have been a little upset because I have gained a little weight. Anyway, I went to a health food store to by some fat burners and ... (151 words)

I like a guy from my karaoke club and he flirts with me but he comes in with another girl

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4117 days ago

28 July 2013 (?) age 51-59 - Usually about every Saturday I go to a club(karaoke) and I have some friends male and female. One guy there he is a really good singer and him and I have done some duets together. I have been told that I sing good as well. I know it might sound weird but I go there with my ... (512 words)

My ex left me over a year ago and I'm no closer to moving on. Even though I've met others there is no space in my heart for them. How can I find peace again?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4127 days ago

28 July 2013 (M)

age 51-59 - I need help in moving on, but I can’t get to the next stage. I was in a relationship with another guy for 7 years. It was fantastic or at least I thought so. We rarely argued and I thought it would last forever. Then unexpectedly he said he needed a break and needed to be ... (557 words)

We were close friends until I told him how I felt, now he has cut contact with me.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4131 days ago

28 July 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Been close friends with this guy for over 3 years; friend, confidant, etc. He was widowed over 2 years ago, and in the past year, we became close as he was ill and i was helping out etc. Long story short, too much contact, too much sharing, I fell for the guy. He did show signs ... (218 words)

I'm being harassed by my ex boyfriend's new girl. I just want to be left alone. What do I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4133 days ago

28 July 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay so me and this guy dated he broke up with me things ended pretty badly amd more so in a physical altercation he chocked me etc. but anyway he came to my job one week later with another girl after we broke up and then he started talking to this girl who works in a other ... (228 words)

Why is my mother mean, judgmental and disrespectful towards me??

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4133 days ago

28 July 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I apologize for the long post! This is not a post about me bashing my mother, I would never do that. It is also not meant to be disrespectful. I do love her and respect her and I’m sure she loves me to a degree. My mother and I will probably never have a close, persona... (1623 words)