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writes:Ok there is a guy at the gym, he is one of the trainers, I am always in a hurry and barely ever get a chance to stop and talk to this guy but I have liked him for ages. Whenever we do talk he is quite shy with me and often looks away when I maintain eye contact. He is not one of those guys who goes round chatting up girls in the gym at all! I really want to get to know him better without seeming weird. I was thinking of writing a note and leaving it in an envelope for him . Just saying I like you, would like to get know you better if you are single? Is this ok? I don't know any other way! Unless you want to give me some suggestions? I have to do something about it because I keep thinking about him! Thanks
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 November 2012): Ok I am original poster of this but I can't just talk to him, i get so nervous when I am around him too. It's ridiculous. I don't have the courage to talk to him as I know the other guys tease him when I do talk to him which is why I think he must like me, there are signs he does and things that have happened. I always catch him looking at me then he looks away! Was thinking a short but note with my number if he wants to do something about it he can, if he has a girlfriend then I won't hear anything?
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reader, AuntyEm +, writes (23 November 2012):
 Sending a note is a bit weird and you can't assume he's single. As honey said, try to strike up a convo with him, maybe ask him to help you train and see how he reacts.
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reader, Honeypie  +, writes (23 November 2012):
 Hmm, how about MAKING time to chat with him first, gauge his reaction to that before sending a note?
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