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writes:my girlfriend always seems to find a way to keep another male relationship in our lives .she always claims they are not sexual and we do often spend days where we dont see eachother.i choose to believe her so my question isnt so much do you think shes cheating but more at what point is a relationship being abused .if for example friday i was made aware that in five days there was a 50% chance i would be gone for a few years should her lieing and running off to california for three days be something i should tolerate and she was with family although it is her exs uncle who she has had sex with before.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 November 2012): if your gf is always lying to you about where she is and what she's doing and with whom, it could either be because she's just an inconsiderate jerk to begin with (could be that her past relationships screwed her up into being like this), or it could be because you have done stuff in the past that made her not want to be honest with you (being controlling of her is one example).
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reader, oldbag  +, writes (23 November 2012):
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Your question isn't very clear to be honest.If you don't think she is cheating then I assume you trust her.
How do you think your relationship being abused exactly? Did she run off to California for 3 days without telling you? If she WAS with family and you CAN trust her it doesn't matter does it,or is it the fact she went without you?
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