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Complicated crush on a soldier

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Question - (25 May 2012) 2 Answers - (Newest, 26 May 2012)
A female United States age 26-29, anonymous writes:

I am 17 and I like my friend who is 21. He's in afghanistan right now and we've always kept contact sinc he's been in the service. I told him before he left that I was interested in him, but he said he wanted me to be 18 before we started to flirt or get to know each other. Do ya'll really think it'll work out?

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A female reader, Honeypie United States +, writes (26 May 2012):

Honeypie agony auntSeems like he is doing the RIGHT thing in waiting for you to turn 18.

Does it mean it will work out for you two? That is hard to say. Military life is not for everyone and keeping a relationship going while one partner is sent all over the place can make it hard.

Stay friends and respect his viewpoint. Who knows he might be a "keeper".

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A male reader, N91 United Kingdom +, writes (26 May 2012):

N91 agony auntWell he sounds like a true gent by waiting until you're 18 before he wants to move things forward (I'm assuming that's the legal age of consent in your state). So that's a good sign right off the bat, I don't see why this is complicated though? lol

Just be friends until you're 18, then see where it goes.

Good luck.

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