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anonymous
writes:Hey! Okay so my boyfriend and I have been together for almost 2 years. Ever since we became active, he can never really bust more than twice in a day. He is 25 years old, very healthy, works out every single day, he has no health problems at all. It buggs me so much when he cannot bust in round 2 or 3. At times, I would get hurt down there but I would want to keep on having sex with him until he busts the 2nd time around but he does not! This actually hurts me mentally because I feel like I am not good enough, but he tells me im amazing and that its just him, he can never really bust 2nd time around. Are there any reasons for this? Or is this normal for a 25 year old healthy man? Reply to this Question
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reader, KittieS  +, writes (26 May 2012):
 Here is what I find...
New boyfriend, your up all night and orgasams a plenty his side - mostly, alcohol, tiredness, sorry to say it thinking about work it all happens
sometimes they don't ever orgasam - but then neither do we - all very normal
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reader, Sweet-thing +, writes (26 May 2012):
 You're putting waaay too much pressure on the guy to cum twice every time. Who does that? I know young men can sometimes if they get a breather in between sexual sessions, but not every time and as he gets older you're going to have to be happy with just once because it will become much harder as time goes by and he'll feel frustrated if you keep demanding that he "perform" like a trained sex monkey. Once is plenty. It's quality you should be looking at, not quanity. If he spends time satisfying you, making sure you are ready for sex, feel loved and cherished then you have to stop pushing for more. You will push him right out of your bed and into someone else's.
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reader, Ldu +, writes (25 May 2012):
its normal .. we arent machines . it takes time to refill the sperm bank lol .
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 May 2012): Not unusual at all.
Get used to it. The older men get, the longer they have to go between rounds. It's not our mental desire that is lacking, it's just the raw chemical workings of the male body as it ages. Men sexually peak pretty early in life.
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