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writes:Hi I just need some advice on this please have I been unfair in this situation I was in a fwb for 14 months which I wasn't happy with as I was left feeling so used all the time then I found out by three people that knew him that he was married he told me they had split up I just stopped texting him n stopped sleeping with him I have now met someone that wants the same as me a relationship but the problem is I see my fwb around nearly everyday as we live very close but we never saw each other hardly so my question is should I be feeling guilty over how I ended things with my fwb I can see a future with my new boyfriend? I just feel so guilty thank you
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 May 2012): Nah you shouldn't feel guilty, all you had was a friends with benefits relationship with him, he was the one cheating on his wife to which you didn't know about. So if anyone should feel guilty its him! It sounds a shambles that situation and you should be thankful its come to an end. If you now have a boyfriend and can see a future with him, then go in that direction and don't look back. Leave him to worry about his own mess and you think about yourself :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 May 2012): Hi, your fwb probably thinks you had already moved on when you stopped contact. Hes a married man who wanted no strings sex. Hes probably moved on aswell. Some relationships have a sell buy date. What you have told us sounds like yours had. Dont feel guilty. I think your over thinking this. Enjoy your new relationship and stop looking back. Best wishes.
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reader, N91 +, writes (26 May 2012):
 No? Why should you? HE WAS CHEATING ON HIS WIFE and using you for sex, what do YOU have to feel guilty about?
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reader, Starlights +, writes (26 May 2012):
 No you havent been unfair, you've had something nice with your friend with benefits, now your moving on and settling into a relationship with someone you like.
Life is about changes so dont feel guilty for wanting a proper relationship!
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