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My ex boyfriend brings my confidence down!

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Question - (25 May 2012) 6 Answers - (Newest, 27 May 2012)
A female United States age 26-29, anonymous writes:

My x bf and I still talk after 2 years of being broken up. Well recently I found out he got his 15 year old fiance pregnant when he's 19 and in the Army! So I decided to ask him about it because I saw pictures/status's from his friends and family on facebook. He got angry and completely ignored the fact that I mentioned it. Ever since he's been talking bad about me when I'm the one whose sober,not pregnant,and is graduating early without dropping out of school unlike him and his gf. It's really bringing down my self confidence but I'm proud of the accomplishments I've made. How should I handle the situation?

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A male reader, N91 United Kingdom +, writes (27 May 2012):

N91 agony auntThe real question is, why are you still speaking to him if all he does is insult you?

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A female reader, tennisstar88 United States +, writes (27 May 2012):

tennisstar88 agony auntI'm sorry but this story sounds off. A military man cannot be engaged to a minor and impregnate her. He would get kicked out of the military, arrested, and have to register as a sex offender.

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A female reader, Honeypie United States +, writes (26 May 2012):

Honeypie agony auntStop talking to him, block him, remove him from FB and your life and put him in the past where he belongs.

Not very smart for a 19 year old to knock up a 15 year old.

Thank your lucky star it wasn't you.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (26 May 2012):

stop being friends with him.

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A female reader, AuntyMacassar United Kingdom +, writes (26 May 2012):

AuntyMacassar agony auntPerhaps you are better off not speaking with him. Do not let him erode your self-confidence.

I wonder if it is making him nervous that his pregnant fiancee is underage.

Congrats on early graduation, BTW.

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A female reader, Starlights United Kingdom +, writes (26 May 2012):

Starlights agony auntstop talking to him if he brings you down, who needs friends who bring them down?

he's jealous of your achievements and insecure himself thats why he tries to pull you down with him.

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