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anonymous
writes:What s.the.deal with his ex?? My ex and I split up 6 mts ago we have 2 young kids. He is in his forties me in my thirties. He moved out and bought a flat. Recently.he has been bombarding me with messages saying he loves me misses me, trys to let meet.him come round when the kids have gone bed. I.suspect he's after.sex. so I.say.no. It's took me a while to get.strong again as it was a bad relationship. In the past he had been veryfriendly with his ex whom he has a grown up son with. I've not been comfortable with their friendship as I'd seen messages he'd sent her arranging to meet her or.saying good night with kisses. When we had fallen out in the past he would start messaging her. Recently he sends me pics in emails of us as a.couple. but he also sends her pics of himself. He says there's.nothing in it but I wonder why he'd do it. She also sent him a messaging saying she misses him.yet again she it talks to him to discuss their son. Am I wrong in thinking there must be more to this than they both say and that its a case of him wanting us.both. Or am I over reacting. They seem to fall out a lot. Surly if uve moved on this wouldn't still happen.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 May 2012): You are a smart woman. He is plaing all sides. You are not overreacting.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 May 2012): He does not miss you, he misses sex. He is trying to get you OR the other ex into bed. He isn't getting any bedroom action, if he was and had a new woman you or the other ex would not be hearing from him.
Whatever he is up to with his ex is his business though now your not together.You split up 6 months ago.
So stay strong keep saying no, then you will have no regrets and the chance of new romance with another man.
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