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*ima Mike
writes:I split up with my partner 6 Months ago as his heavy work schedule meant we was never spending any time together and even though it broke my heart I had to think of myself and my 2 children with whom I have from a previous relationship.Recently we have gotten back in touch with each other and have gone on several dates and have talked things over, i realised i still really love him and really want to try again.We went out for a meal the other night and both agreed that We should of spoke about how we felt during the relationship. We both realise that each of us made bad decisions at times.Anyway we have shared a few kisses and have agreed to meet up again at the weekend. (we have met up once a week for the past 3 weeks) I asked him what was going on between us? I asked him whether we were back together or if there was a chance of us getting back together and he replied with.....We are just meeting up, going for meals and drinks talking and taking things slowly and lets see what happens.I'm happy with that response but I love him so much and just need to know if anyone has been in this situation and if there is ever a happy ending?
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reader, chemar22  +, writes (22 May 2012):
Sure you have a chance as long as you don't begin to pressure him. Asking already what your relationship status is, is probably too soon. Don't ask at all. See him and have fun with each other. Don't always be available though even if you want to. Men want to be the one doing the pursuing, it gives the woman more value. Men want to work for a relationship, not have one handed to them. If he doesn't pursue you or even call for casual dates, does he really want to be with you? Who makes the weekly date plans, you or him?
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reader, Mr.issues21 +, writes (22 May 2012):
 Hi there, well i am sort of in a similar situation, i am dating a girl 8 years my senior (i'm 20), and she has two children to a previous partner, we both like each other a lot and we're taking it slowly, but happy endings are uncertain to say the least, it all depends on a series of contributing factors, mainly communication, feelings to one another, and what you both want out of the relationship etc, but sometimes things don't always go to plan, i might be young but i've had my fair share of mis-haps but all i do is move on and try not to let nostalgia re-surface, you just have to have faith i guess and if you are positive then who knows what the outcome might be, if it doesn't work then remember, that every cloud has a silver lining and everyone has their soul mate, some just come sooner than others i kind of like to think of it as finding that one job you want, you apply for many but only one of them ever really gets back to you... still i wish you all the best, and i hope you have found my input useful to your situation. all the best, Mr.Issues xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 May 2012): I think this is VERY positive! I've been broken up with someone for 6 months, and he's already living with someone else. There are so many things I wish I'd told him when we were together, and prob won't get the chance now. You are lucky! You do have the chance! Just be honest and open and let things happen :) Good Luck!
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