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Was it just friends with her? Or more?

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Question - (22 May 2012) 1 Answers - (Newest, 22 May 2012)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Hey there,

Im a bit confused about something, i'll give you the basics to start. Im a girl, Im 17 and have been with my boyfriend for a year.

Last weekend I went away for my sisters birthday, for a girls only weekend. There was a girl of 19 who I met her before about 4 years ago but we hardly spoke. Anyway, the whole weekend we got on amazingly well, talked all the time about everything etc. We were drunk and she was really flirty with me and I admit I was back. She is single and kept talking about her ex with me which I listened and tried to give her the best advice with. She showed me loads of pictures of her too. She kept saying im really like her, and we swapped numbers.

When we got back we were talking online, just taking the mick out of each other and things like that. Then she text me asking if i would like to go out and do loads of things, like go out etc etc. So we were texting for literally 3 days non stop, which I think is wierd as i have never text a girl for 3 days straight before, usually just boys. When she was texting she constantly tells me about this boy she is texting but keeps saying, im not interested etc. She then asked if i wanted to go for something to eat with her and I did.. It was exactly like a date, we got on so well, I caught her staring at me LOADS, and I did it back..

Anyways she took me home, and was REALLY quiet on the way back, she gave me a kiss then went, i thanked her through text and she text back saying she enjoyed her night.

She has commented on a couple of my posts on facebook but havent heard from her since and this was just before the weekend so i just want to know is it more than friends or not?

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A male reader, Mr.issues21 United Kingdom +, writes (22 May 2012):

Mr.issues21 agony auntThis sounds a little tricky to me but i'll do my best to answer,

ok so your friend maybe bi-curious or just simply put a really good friend! still if you have feelings too for her in any kind of way then you might wanna tell her about them see what she thinks? go easy on the subject though. personally since i'm a guy if i was in your shoes then i would probably guess she fancied me by the actions you described. but looks can be deceiving so becareful, but communication helps so talk with your friend and see what's what

i hope this helps and i wish you luck, take care, Mr.Issues xx

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