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30-35,
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writes:Hi. I really need some hepl or advice to deal with this. I was with my boyfriend for just over 3 years, I ended it because I couldn't cope with all the stress.I have met someone so amazing, we met up and it all went great and he made me feel special, but when we're not together he goes all weird with me and his ex/girlfriend always rings him and obviously makes him feel guilty for leaving her. So he rang me in tears the other day so we both decided I'll drive to him to talk, but it kinda didn't end up in talking, instead we had sex but it was unprotected sex and now he has gone weird with me again, I know he loves his ex, I'm just so confused to what to do :(.We are talking but I don't know what I am going to do about the pregnancy thing.Please helpthank you.
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reader, Denise32  +, writes (22 May 2012):
 So nothing got resolved about your relationship since you had sex instead of discussion the situation. Not smart.
And now: do you know for a fact that you are pregnant? Have you taken a home pregnancy test or are you simply not sure and afraid you may be?
It's probably too late to take a morning-after pill. But if you ARE by an unlucky chance, expecting, then unless you want to go through with pregnancy, birth and a baby to look after and bring up for the next twenty years - unless you decide to give the child (if there is one) up for adoption when he/she is born, you should set about getting an abortion very soon. The earlier the better........
I'm sorry to hear of this bad experience - but as for the guy in question, IMHO your best bet is to let him go and to learn from this......
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