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26-29,
anonymous
writes:I'm in a very helpless situation, as i have no one else tell about this at the moment and it's tearing me apart. Since last year, i've had a crush on this teacher at my school. He's in his 20s and married. It's just an infatuation of course, in the physical sense, not 'in love'. But seeing him at school made school and life feel interesting and i had something to look forward too, which made me happy. He's attractive, and i felt happy when i saw him. I knew my bounds and didn't do anything about it, never told anyone. Just recently i found out that he's moving to another country with his wife in a couple of days. I felt so shocked devastated when i found out, because it was so unexpected and he's going away so soon! Weird thing is, it's not him i'm sad about, but because then school will be so dull(i try my best at school, not related to schoolwork) and life would feel so uninteresting because i feel happy when i like someone, to put it straight it's fun. But now that he's going, and i never knew before hand,i just cry and cry. I've never told a friend about him, so im not sure how to approach it....i just feel so low, knowing i'm never going to see him ever again, i'm going to miss his presence, not him...I feel like crying right now...Please help me, how can i get over him and enjoy going to school? Sorry if it's long.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 March 2012): Thank you guys, it feels nice to have someone who can relate to this. He was my teacher in grade 9 for the whole year, and i never felt like that towards him then. But the next year, when he wasn't my teacher, it just sort of happened. Of course, i study and focus on my education at all times, i want to do good! I'm trying my best to get over him, just needed someone to talk to. Once again, thanks for your help, it's much appreciated.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 March 2012): Well, this sort of situation does not only occur to you. The only thing that he would want from you is to have a good education, so why not focus on that? I know it is a very hard feeling because I myself have experienced this situation. I felt completely insane when I thought that I liked him, but I'm sure you'll soon get over it. Enjoy school with your friends and try to take your mind off that...
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