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writes:Hes been with a lot of other girls, and I want to be the last one. We just had sex for the first time, and when he was taking me home he started talking about all the other girls hes had. It made me feel really bad, but i didnt tell him cause I know it will make him mad. He was my first, I dont know what to do. I dont know how to keep him home so to speek. He is a lover, he just dosnt know how to love one person. Help please. Reply to this Question
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reader, Echo85  +, writes (26 March 2012):
 Sweetheart i'm really sorry but it is unlikely you will be the last one.
You are very young and I assume he is too. You will probably have your heart broken by him, but you will get over it. And you will find someone worthy of you.
Good luck my love. xxx
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reader, Beccccccy  +, writes (24 March 2012):
 Honey ..Sorry you probably wont like this answer ..BUT YOU ARE TOO YOUNG . Leave this guy to continue with his ways , seriously ..Its not worth it . I can see he is going to make many problems for you ..
Please Please ..chalk it up to experience and Wait until you are Older and feel far more compfortable with the situation .
Take Care and Go Easy on yourself .
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reader, Hugh.J +, writes (24 March 2012):
 On the money as usual, "C.G." - this bloke is a player and won't change. He has already hurt you and will continue to do so.
Recommended course of action? Get out before you get hurt any more and put it down to experience, then find someone worthy of you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 March 2012): You're really young, and inexperienced so I will just be brutally honest. You cannot make him stop. You can't change someone no matter how much you want them to be different. Its best that you end your involvement with him and find someone else who doesn't need to do any changing in order for you to feel ok about them.
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reader, YouWish +, writes (24 March 2012):
 I will agree with C. Grant on this only if he's older than you...as in 3 or 4 years older. Otherwise, if he's your age (13-15), I'd be suspicious that he's lying to impress you because he's self-conscious about his lack of experience.
I say that because that's a rookie mistake on his part. Guys who are players tend to play it all smooth and not boast about all the women they've had right after sex. They'll play debonair and then brag to his BUDDIES about you.
You said he took you home? Was it by car? Did he drive?
If he's a lot older than you, I'll agree with everything C. Grant said. If he's your age, tell him you don't care about his "experience", that all you care about is him and you, and yesterday's old news.
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reader, Kaitlynn +, writes (24 March 2012):
 Tamm, screw him. Wasnt the first time wont be the last he does it sorry honey.
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reader, C. Grant  +, writes (24 March 2012):
 Aw hon, I understand that you want to be the ‘last one.’ Of course you do, and no doubt he made you think that it was possible. A quality guy would never tell you about other girls he’s ‘had’. And a quality guy would never get mad about you asking. Kiddo, the guy is just bad news. He’s just added a knotch to his belt. He wasn’t worthy of your first time, and he’ll never be worthy of your time, attention, or affection in the future. Hon, this was a mistake, and nothing you can do with this guy will undo the mistake. He will never be there for you.
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