A
male
age
30-35,
*reshandria
writes: can somebody hep me? i really love this guy he's straight we've been friends and he knows that i'm gay... i love him since the first time i saw him, we were classmates since last 2 terms of our school year but he didn't know that i really love him. we hang out after classes, we share somethings about our life to each other, we watch movies and i even helped him to look for a new dormitory to stay, i support him in everything he do and be with him in everywhere he go and no matter what happens to him we chat almost every night we watch movies with friends but he don't like to watch movies if it were just the 2 of us. but now i started to ask my self do i really love him? because there are times that i don't think of him when I don't see him but when i'm with him i just feel normal no spark in my heart just normal but i feel like i 'm complete i just want to be with him. i love him not because of his looks i love him because of his imperfections and his attitude. but i don't know if it is really love that i feel for him please help me
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 March 2012): i think you care alot for him , I think you have a close relationship with him , I believe if you feel this way maybe he's just confused and doesn't want to have doubts about him being gay . Look if he spends time with you , he cares about you , he enjoys your company , but you have to wait cause if you ruin your friendship for an idea in your mind , is not worth it . Do I think it's love yes what kind of love I'm not sure of .. I'd recommend you start seeing someone to see how your friend reacts if he doesn't care than maybe he's not intrested
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