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*onkey man
writes:Av been with my gf 7 months and i really want to talk dirty with her but she wont.how can i change her mind ???? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 March 2012): Ahhh... I asked my bf to talk dirty to me & he claims that he doesn't want to say something that sounds stupid. I love it personally! It's funny but sometimes he says things that are dirty and doesn't even realize it. I guess some people are just embarassed... No biggie ;)
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reader, Blonde68 +, writes (24 March 2012):
You can't change her mind and you have to respect her wishes.
However, has she explained why she won't do it? Is she embarrassed by it? If that was the case then you could try talking dirty via text first and build it up from there as her confidence grows. But in saying that, if you already know it just isn't her thing because she simply dislikes it, then leave it well alone and don't pressure her.
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reader, Anonymous 123  +, writes (24 March 2012):
 You cant change her mind OP, if someone doesn't like it, they don't. Its not something you can force someone to do, and neither should you.
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reader, ian84 +, writes (24 March 2012):
You can't persuade her to talk dirty, it's her wishes and you have to respect them.
My girlfriend won't talk dirty to me, yet she's willing to talk dirty to some stranger on the phone.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 March 2012): Get her into it. She does secretly feel dirty towards you, but is just afraid of what you are going to think about her. Start it off... and she will soon catch up.
Enjoy life mate.
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