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26-29,
anonymous
writes:i like this girl i sit with in my class. she's really sweet and she's always hugging me, even messes with my leg under the table, we go the same way home so we do talk a lot . the problem is i think she has a boyfriend. recently they've been walking home together but that's it. he shows more attention to any other girl than he shows her. he's always hugging other girls and holding their hands.is it a good idea to build up trust with her because i sit with her everyday and wait for them to separate or tell her how i feel?
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 March 2012): I think you should wait until you both know how to respect monogamous relationships a lot more then any of you are currently doing.
You are with someone? You refrain from playing footsie with ANYONE else. You refrain from doing anything that can even remotely be construed as romantic with ANYONE else.
The one you like is involved? You back the hell off. If you have romantic feelings for that person you cannot EVER be 'Just Friends' as long as anything more lurks beneath the surface of at least one of you.
Either tell her how you feel and don't expect anything in return or remain friends and back off on the games you are flirting around with.
If she returns your feelings, then tell her she breaks up with her boyfriend or turns you down. Under no circumstance should you think it's a good option to cheat.
Sorry to be harsh. But these are the lessons you need to learn now, or you will learn them more painfully later on.
Flynn 24
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