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30-35,
anonymous
writes:i have known this guy for about 2 years, we play a co-ed sport together at university. A few months ago he asked me to stay over, since then we have had 5 sleep overs. we havent kissed at all, only talked and cuddled untill we fall asleep. it is always on the weekends and we are usually drunk. He is a very shy person, but seems comfortable around me when we are alone. He had stopped answering my texts so i took the hint but then last night he came over again and still no kissing.we have never hungout me and him sober though, either than soccer. My question is: is he just shy or is he trying to blow me off politly?
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (3 July 2012):
 Well it sounds to me like he is just shy. He asked you to stay over with him which is a good sign, and he never tried anything other than cuddle you, also another good sign. It worries me though that you both only ever hang out together when you are drunk. My guess is that a drink makes him feel more confident and he just does not know how to act in front of you sober. However if anything where to ever happen between you then you would both need to learn to get to know each other sober. If you like him then ask him out on a date, maybe to watch a film or to grab something to eat. Try and take things slow and be comfortable in each others company. If you want to kiss him well then you make the first move and see how he acts. The more he gets to know you, the less shy he will be. Good luck.
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