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Boyfriend acts kind of strange about sex. Is he gay?

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Question - (3 July 2012) 6 Answers - (Newest, 3 July 2012)
A female United States age , anonymous writes:

My man prefers to masturbate while I am next to him sucking on his chest. I want him to have intercourse with me but he doesn't. He will only let me ride it and most of the time it is not that hard. He is 66 and I am 59. Do you think he might be gay?

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A male reader, DoubleM United States +, writes (3 July 2012):

DoubleM agony auntBy the way, in my opinion, there is a biological reason for a man's decreasing sex drive and abilities at some point when they reach their 50s, 60s or older. As i suggested, every man may be different, but the aforementioned biological reason is that fatherhood becomes a bit less a good thing for all involved.

A child may be less likely to have a longterm father if born of an older man, but it does happen. Who can question that? You could say that it is part of a spiritual intent that younger men should become fathers, so that they will be around longer. But fortunately, most women are infertile as they age, so children are less likely.

But sexual propensity simply decreases as a man ages, and eventually, it also does so with women as they age.

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A male reader, DoubleM United States +, writes (3 July 2012):

DoubleM agony auntProbably not gay, but at his age, he's having a difficult time doing what he might have been able to do in the past. I'm 64-years-old, and still able to function, but not always, and certainly like in my youth. Many factors can figure-in when a man is in his 50s, 60s or older - heart or prostate problems, breathing issues if he smokes or did - and many more things.

It is a blessing to live past 60 years or more, avoiding all the situations or diseases that can kill, but there are some limitations with aging. My personal solution regarding the pleasure for a woman is to provide oral stimulation, in addition to some intercourse and other techniques.

But if he is doing nothing to try to please you sexually, then he may be somewhat selfish and not a very good match.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (3 July 2012):

Thus the problem of age or ailment.if he is taking medication that may also weaken his manwood.is not gay

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A female reader, Melaniee United States +, writes (3 July 2012):

Melaniee agony auntTell him to talk to his doctor for some kind of hard on madicine :) good luck

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (3 July 2012):

NO he's not gay, he's OLD!!!

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A female reader, Honeypie United States +, writes (3 July 2012):

Honeypie agony auntNope, I think he might have a hard time keeping an erection during intercourse.

Do you get anything out of the sex with this guy?

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