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writes:HiI’m 26 years old, in December I sent a message to my friend saying I miss my ex, I did anything towards that feeling and I just said to coz I’m getting married and I was having cold feet. My bf saw this message and ever since this incident he doesn’t trust me. I have did nothing wrong, I never cheated or had anything to do with anyone. Now he keeps my phone, I have to report to him every day about who calls me, He changed my Facebook and my Gmail account passwords, I’m really starting to feel like I’m being closed up, we getting married in April and I don’t know what to do, I’m not happy.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 January 2012): If you miss your ex, do the right thing and stop stringing along your current boyfriend.
If you are really ready for him, and marriage and all that, you wouldn't be missing your ex.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 January 2012):
I was engaged to a woman and she said she missed her ex I would postpone the wedding myself. Why would you say such a thing? Work that out first.
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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (27 January 2012):
 I would postpone the marriage if I even bothered to have it.
how did he find out about the message? was he snooping then? have you ever done anything to give him reason not to trust you?
if not rethink his controlling jealous behavior as it will just get worse and worse and you may end up a prisoner in your own home.
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reader, Mariab  +, writes (27 January 2012):
 This is not normal by any means and your frustration is understandable! He seems insecure and in need of alot of reassurance. But hun if the message never sinks in that You love him and only him and that you can be trusted... then I think pursuing this marriage would be the start of a very lonnnggg and unhappy journey! How long can you live like this? Usually when trust goes out the door...love soon follows. Rethink this if he cannot get a grip of his insecurities!!! Good luck hun xxx
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reader, Read-the-signs +, writes (27 January 2012):
No, you cannot get married until this has been resolved. Postpone the wedding.
I can see why your boyfriend is not happy, but if your explanation and apology have not been understood or accepted by him then the relationship cannot continue because he will never trust you. And without trust, the relationship isn't worth having.
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