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*ovemeright11
writes:When me and my boyfriend have sex we seem to have a friction problem he does not shave, but I do shave and any time I am on top he will eventually say ouch from feeling the friction. It usually happens even if I am cleanly shaven ,but defiantly when there is some stubble. Is there anything we can do to help him not feel that pain when I have sex on top? Does anyone have tips on this? Please help. Reply to this Question
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reader, person12345 +, writes (27 January 2012):
 I know I commented but I wanted to repeat, stubble is stubble is sandpaper. If he shaves too, it will just mean a rash/pain for BOTH of you instead of one. Your hair is there for a reason! It protects you when you're going at it, holds in pheromones as another aunt said, and protects your ladybits from friction and "debris." I used to shave a lot of it off, and my boyfriend HATED the feeling. The final decision was made after it gave him a rash in some unpleasant areas. So I just keep it nicely trimmed with scissors and we're both much happier. Waxing will grow back into stubble eventually. Removing all your hair leaves you vulnerable to skin and vaginal infections. It's much healthier and cheaper to just leave it.
http://www.kevinmd.com/blog/2011/04/war-pubic-hair.html
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reader, TrancedRhythmEar  +, writes (27 January 2012):
 yeah if he shaved too.. should be much better experience. Right now its like riding sawdust I bet so just have him trim the wood area a lil more :-)
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reader, SonOfMan  +, writes (27 January 2012):
 To shave or not to shave? That certainly is the question.
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reader, desirewhitefire  +, writes (27 January 2012):
 I know a lot a of women automatically think they need to shave their privates, but that hair is there for a reason. I'm not saying you should let it go all bushy and wild woman, but hair is there to protect the vagina, keep it clean, and it holds pheromones. My boyfriend used to shave his privates and I begged him to stop...I like the natural beauty. I don't shave, I clip it neatly, and he has found enjoyment in it. :) It's a mark of womanhood, nothing to be ashamed of, so try to not shave and see what happens. You'll certainly be happier.
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reader, misLadYd..  +, writes (27 January 2012):
 i think he shud try shaving as well.. See how it will go.if it dont work,try the pharmacy for some cream to use..i bet they have them.
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reader, uroboros  +, writes (27 January 2012):
stop shaving start waxing, the hair grows thinner and more delicate, or get a laser hair removal.
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reader, person12345 +, writes (27 January 2012):
Stop shaving. Hair is a sort of "lubricant."
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 January 2012): You can stop shaving, that will probably put an end to the problem.
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