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If a guy wants you for sex but not a girlfriend does it mean you're ugly?

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Question - (27 January 2012) 8 Answers - (Newest, 28 January 2012)
A age 36-40, anonymous writes:

He said it was because we live too far apart and I accepted that. Now he's dating a girl who lives near him but still wants to sleep with me. He calls me "hot" etc I've told him to leave me alone.

I feel ugly :(

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A reader, anonymous, writes (28 January 2012):

Actually, its quite the opposite. However, it does mean he only sees you in a sexual way, so you shoukd find someone else,

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A male reader, Relationship.Chef United States +, writes (28 January 2012):

Relationship.Chef agony auntLove, you're not ugly.

You ARE stupid for thinking that, and, you are clearly over-thinking his reaction to this situation.

Rather than dwell on childish reaction of this person, move on, and, find several men who'd treat you a great deal better than he has.

(Perhaps, someday, he'll understand what he lost. And, if he doesn't, it's his loss).

Best of luck, and, smile! :)

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A female reader, Honeypie United States +, writes (28 January 2012):

Honeypie agony auntHe is a tool and honestly you are too good for him anyways.

It has nothing to do with your looks, it has to do with him being a total asshat.

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A male reader, The Realist Canada +, writes (28 January 2012):

The Realist agony auntI would say that it means it is the complete opposite. He is physically attracted to you but doesn't want a relationship. Personally I think that it is good that he is at least honest and didn't try to build a relationship and then only want sex. This way if you are not interested you can make the choice and be done with it. Life would be so much easier if people were honest about what they wanted from the other person.

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A female reader, katiekate United States +, writes (28 January 2012):

katiekate agony auntSounds like he's "into" you enough to have sex with you, but not enough to be in a relationship with you. Unless a guy is truly interested in you for more than just sex, you should move on and find someone who is! This guy probably just wants a booty call. You can do better!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (27 January 2012):

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I think this Douchebag is aware you suffer from low self esteem so is using you. Its easy to say you are HOT and sleep with you and cheat on his GF because to him; he only cares about getting off.

So being used would have me feeling pretty low and ugly too.

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A male reader, Tom Obler  United Kingdom +, writes (27 January 2012):

Tom Obler  agony auntHe just wants sex and no strings. He obviously fancies you but only for sex. Sounds like he wants to use you.

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A male reader, Danielepew Mexico +, writes (27 January 2012):

Danielepew agony auntHe wants to have sex because he finds you "hot". Enough said.

Now, that doesn't mean he has good intentions.

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