A
male
age
30-35,
*ymptoms of love
writes:I have been in love with a girl since 4 months or more. I truly loved her and cared for her. I could do anything to make her smile. And, i thought she felt the same for me. Our relation started with some problems of her with her ex boyfriend. I helped her out and gradually we came closer and fall in love. All our relation and love was on phone.In the journey of the 4 months of our relation many ups and downs came. Many of her friends and some others kept saying me about her character. She is not the right girl, she flirts, uses the guys etc. . . But i had belief on my love.At last, the day came when i first met her. Closeness was ovious. So i kissed her. But. . . . . She didn't do that in return and left that place. Afterwards, i came to know that she then went to meet her brand new bf. When i asked her, she asked me for breakup saying that she had always needed a timepass whom she can flirt with, not a serious one. In this situation, its ovious for a guy to be angry. Even i thought of punishing her for her deeds. But every time i think of doing this, something there in my heart stops me. Even if i am angry, frustrated, i am not able to hurt her anyway. . .What should i do in this situation? Plz suggest. . . . . . .
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reader, 11muds11  +, writes (28 January 2012):
Sorry, about that. Most guys have been there.
When girls are young, some have no idea how to control their feelings. So they do things like this. It's natural, so a girl doesn't get too serious at too young of an age.
Don't be angry with her. She's simply not the right girl for you. Move on and find another. There are many of thousands of girls who would like a guy like you. Go find one.
Hope this helps. Good luck.
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