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writes:My boyfriend has a step dad, who has a step sister which makes her his 'step aunt' in a way. She's a year younger than him and ever since I first met her things seemed fishy. They used to stare at each other across the room at family parties. She's always really flirty with him in messages. My boyfriend also once went and met up with her behind my back because she wanted someone to talk too and I found out myself. My boyfriend made me feel silly saying 'Shes JUST my auntie' but now I'm thinking otherwise.I saw on his facebook wall she was calling him a girl and asked him to text her. He said he couldn't so he inboxed her. I logged on his facebook afterwards to read the messages (he knows about this now and was annoyed but now isn't) It started with 'You still owe me that date ;)' and my boyfriend said 'I know' and started a conversation on music. She however went 'So yeah haha, getting back to this date ;)' and he ignored it. They got on the topic of being drunk and it came to a point where she asked if he still remembered that time he was texting her when he was drunk. She thought he'd forgotten and he said he wouldn't forget that. Also a conversation when he was at his other aunties house and she kept asking which conversation that was but he didn't reply. I brought those messages up and he said the 'date' thing was just the date they were going to meet up. He said I could come though. I asked about this drunken conversation but he got to the topic of how they used to like each other years ago before his mum married her step brother. She still likes him though and I have a feeling he likes her too. I'm actually fuming right now, I can't sleep. I don't know how to deal with it at all. He's really protective and interested in her relationships all the time, and whenever I'm around she doesn't talk or approach him.He wouldn't cheat, or so I believe so. He has strong opinions on cheaters and I couldn't imagine him doing it.
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reader, Aunty BimBim  +, writes (23 January 2012):
 If his father is his step father, and she is the step father's step sister, unless there is another biological connection between your boyfriend and this girl, there is no way she is his aunty.
Maybe she likes him more than he likes her, he might view her as a younger female relative needing protection, you dont say how old either of them are, just hold council for a while, if he was up to anything he would not have given you access to his facebook passwords (a silly thing for any b/f or g/f to do in my opinion but that's another story).
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 January 2012): don't be so sure he would 'never' cheat...he's already courting disaster. if he was SO against cheating he wouldn't even be doing what he is now.
you really shouldn't be logging into other people's facebook accounts. Even if it's your bf's. I think that's actually illegal. If you hack into someone else's account and find stuff you don't like, well he isn't the only one behaving dishonorably so you're both even, you don't have the moral highground anymore.
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