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writes:I know her only on fb. even though she gave me her no, I have never talk to her on phone thats cause she live is USA and I live is South Africa but her Origin is in South Africa, anyways we were best friend on facebook, one day I faced problem then she helped me with a cash$$..I become to love her and I told her that I do love her.. but she refuses my request and I do ask her too many times.. and she told me that she didn't want a bf and she didn't want to think about it...Finally I tell her that I am going to give up using fb, and delete my account and she ask me not to do that..I can't understand her..
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reader, Denise32  +, writes (23 January 2012):
 I believe she is saying you don't need to give up being on Facebook, that's all.
But you DO definitely need to LEAVE HER ALONE! She has told you she's not interested and you need to accept/respect her choice, like it or not.
A final observation: if you think you love someone you have never met in person, you're kidding yourself - i.e., living in a fantasy world. You really can't (and don't) know what another person is like if you have not met them.
This applies to all of us, not just you.
Good luck.
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reader, Dear Mandy  +, writes (23 January 2012):
 hi many people use others on fb and other sites for cash so maybe she is just being careful? dont be harsh and delete account, just continue to be friends, time will tell if your meant to be...mandy x
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 January 2012): Sounds like she enjoys the facebook contact but doesn't want more than that. It could be she likes to be of help to people.
It is easy to get hooked on someone who helps you. But you never met, so what you imagine as and what feels like love, isn't the real thing.
Try to find some real live friends locally. This would be much better than facebook. Maybe look on facebook first and then suggest meeting. Or find people you like locally on facebook and contact them.
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