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*elly225
writes:Well im living in an estate next to a English guy he is in his 4o's and has been living alone since for as long as i remember when he usually gets a girl she takes advantage of him . He is like a brother to me and my husband and does have a big big heart but its just ever since he met my sister at my husbands 40th he has been obsessed with her , and well i'm guessing he fancies her i don't know . He asked me for her number saying he needed it but she is a private person so i had to make excuses about it.They have met numerous of times since on nights out but he won't go up and talk to her i don't know why and my sister is a very shy person so she isnt going to either.The party was 3 months ago, i introduced him to her and they talked for maybe 15 minutes and had small chats in between. About a week after he called to our house (he calls to our home regularly) and at the time i didn't notice anything . But he started off with 'i was talking to your sister' and he was asking was she married and stupid me said no shes single and since then he has been enquiring about her and when i said to him do you fancy her he said no but i think she fancies me.Then one evening last week he called to our house and he was talking non stop my sister came in and he just zipped his mouth said not a word just a hi and that was it he was going red and all he did was stare at her and if she looked at him he'd look at the floor . He was even able to tell me her eye colour was green!THERE is an age gap shes 29 he is early 40's.What should i do with him (he is so annoying) but he is a great guy i have to admit that. I don't want to embarrass him or anything but he wouldn't be asking me everything he can about her unless something was up . I have said to my sister i think my neighbour has a soft spot for her she just smiled and told me to shut up.What do i do ???
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reader, Aunty BimBim  +, writes (24 January 2012):
 What's the problem here, you say he is a nice guy, why is this annoying you, who knows they may be perfect for each other.
Tell your sister he asked for your number and ask if she has a problem with you sharing it, if she doesn't pass it on and let nature take it's course, or not, as the case may be.
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reader, tennisstar88  +, writes (24 January 2012):
 What do you mean what should you do???
Do you want them to get together? Is that your intention? Or are you trying to ward him off your sister??
I believe you should leave it alone and let the romance blossom if there's a spark. They're both adults, there's no need to play Cupid. Or to try to tell your sister who she can and cannot date.
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reader, Starlights  +, writes (24 January 2012):
 Does your sister like him?
By her answer earlier, it is not clear to me if she does or does not. So ask her if she likes him.
If she says she likes him then ask her if you can pass her number to him as he asked for it.
Your neighbour has a soft spot and crush for your sister, if he's such a nice guy as you say, i'd support him if i was you!
Oh and by the way age does not matter!
Goodluck!
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