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female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:Hi I have a question recently I saw my boyfriend getting too warm and giving kisses on lips to his freinds wife in front of everyone it looked everyone was okay but I found it uncomfortable. I am an Indian so is my boyfriend and I am eleven years younger to him while the friend and his wife are also older than me and are Italian and are old and close freinds of my boyfriend since a long time back . Me and my boyfreind have known each other only for more than a year. I am not very sure if it is right to express my discomfort about this to my boyfriend and if it is valid so that I do not get upset or make him get upset over it. As maybe it's just a cultural thing I am a little confused I really appreciate Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 January 2012): If he is with you he needs to respect you and respect your culture so tell him how you feel.
I am not Indian but wouldn't like someone I was so close to kissing another woman on the lips.
Good relationships take the needs of both people into account.
A
female
reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (23 January 2012):
 It does not matter if it's cultural or not... you need to talk to him about it and let him know it bothers you.
it's probably nothing much to him or them but it bothers you and that's enough.
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