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30-35,
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writes:I met a guy while away in another country and we spent lots of time together. He insisted we exchange phone numbers so we can keep in touch and see each other again. He said he wanted to come visit me for Valentines Day. He gave me his number and told me to text him when I made it home safe. I did indeed and he said he couldn't stop thinking of me. I told him I thought of him too and couldn't wait to see him again. He agreed. So days go by, and at first I figured he should call me, but I don't like playing games. And I felt we hit it off well enough. But when I called, he didn't answer and I haven't heard from him. So what is up with that? I really like this guy but I feel rejected. Was it too soon to call him? He is 30, I'm mid 20s.
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reader, AbigailBradbury  +, writes (23 January 2012):
 i agree with the other answer. He's probably realised the distance is a problem but didn't want to tell you because he was afraid of hurting you so has probably figured it's easier on you just to ignore you. Stupid i know, but men think like that.
The other lady is right, you need to move on if nothing comes from this.
Just think, you had amazing memories with him. Just keep it like that :D xx
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reader, Artistry +, writes (23 January 2012):
 Hi, We all meet people who we like, but the situation does not always lend itself to a smooth relationship status. It does appear that he was interested in you, but then considered how far away you were, and decided it would not work out to well, because of the distance involved. I would let it be, if he contacts you, show interest but not too much. See where it goes. If no contact from him, do not call him. Move on. Count it as experience. Life is short. Cheers
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