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female
age
30-35,
*heLittleLeprechaun
writes: Okay so I'm 20 years old, I have had many crushes on guys since I was young. and I've had 2 boyfriends. the first (when I was 15 - 16) I thought I loved until his exessive pressuring, made me feel really uncomfertable. The second was a nice guy but due to very different veiws we broke up just about a week ago. But I never felt any spark in that relationship anyway. Also I've had pobably just as many crushes on and been attracted girls (if not more). I thought I even was in love with my best friend. but she's straight so I have had to move on. I have never dated or kissed a girl but when I think about it. It's exciting and it feels really good. I have watched straight porn and found myself fanticizing about thw woman. I also have watched lesbian porn and i find it even more exciting! I have told a couple friend that I'm bi or pansexual. but I just don't know sometimes I think I even could be lesbian.But I have been attracted to boys I just think I might like girls more, I just don't know! How can I know for sure that I like girls if I've never been with one?
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 January 2012): Stop thinking you have to rush into stuff. Take your time and do not get pressured into something your not comfortable with. My first truly wake up call about my sexuality was when a friend asked me if i would ever kiss a guy. My response was depends how cute he is. He then askedf me if i thought he was cute. 2 days later i went home. Figure it out
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