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writes:Okay this is complicated. I've been dating a guy I met on RSVP. We actually met for the first time yesterday and it was great! the day ended with a hug and a kiss!! and he made so many hints about seeing each other again. about me going to visit him and yada yada. That same night I went on to hide my RSVP profile and saw he was online now. I didn't think much of it at first. And this morning I found myself trying to look again but I couldn't see his profile. So I thought oh he's hid it. But I can still view his profile if I go into my contact history and see his profile that way and I noticed he was online about 10 am this morning. Yet I can find his profile in guest search on my phone, where i'm not even signed in. I'm so confused. Has he hidden his profile or is something going on? Reply to this Question
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reader, Ciar  +, writes (22 January 2012):
 I agree with most of what Kyle007 says. Do NOT ask him if he wants to continue with you or keep looking. It is way too soon for that. You've only met each other once so you can't possibly know if this will blossom into a long term union.
Both of you are single and free to go out on dates with others. Do not mention his profile status and stop checking up on him.
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reader, Kyle007  +, writes (22 January 2012):
OK, I hate to be so technical, but one one hand you say you have been dating a guy, but you say you only met him once. "Dating" would mean a continual action.
So, if you only saw him once, and all you did was a hug and a kiss, I am sorry to say, that is not enough for you to say that he is now "your man".
You did not even mention a planned second date. Just a hint. Do you see where I am taking this?
Did you agree to both hide your profiles? Don't think that your doing something for his benefit obligates him to reciprocate. It doesn't.
So, whether its hidden or public or what is some technical issue and beside the point. What you really want to know is if he is still pursuing other women.
So just ask him if he wants to continue with you or keep looking.
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