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writes:I have a crush on this guy but I don't know if he is gay. Me and him sit by each other in class and we mess with each other all the time and I started to like him. Over the weekend I went to his Facebook page and I wanted to see his pictures so I looked at his info and he had he was interested in men and women. I know wouldn't know straight guy put that on his page unless it was true. I wanna tell him that I like him but I'm not openly gay and I'm scared of his outcome and I dont know for sure if he is. Tomorrow at school i wanted to tell him. I came up with ways to tell him I like him by writing a note to him or tell him to txt me because its personal between me and him but I'm so scared to tell him. I have his number now but I scared to just blurt out I like him without him knowing I was gonna text him. How can I tell him I like him?
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reader, The Realist  +, writes (22 January 2012):
 I would say you are correct about the fb profile. He wouldn't put that up there unless it was some sort of dare.
For most things I don't think text is the best option but in this case I would text him and tell him that you like him and want to know if you two can get together sometime. That way even if he says no the situation is far less awkward. Also that means that no one else see this except the two of you and you don't have to be public about it if you are not ready.
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