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writes:I'm almost 17. I fell in love with a girl who played in the opening band for my band a while back. I thought I was in love the first time I saw her. It felt like a movie scene for the night that I was with her. I found out a few days after talking to her that she was 18 and going to University abroad. She left the summer to travel, and I had tried to convince myself that I didn't feel for her as strongly as I did / do. I went to go visit the city where she now studies because my stepfather and mother live there, I called her up and it was all perfect. I can't stop thinking about her, and even as I'm writing this her image is in my head and heart. Yes, I know that nothing can happen relationship wise in the near future, and it really hurts me to know this. I don't know what to do?Because I want to play it cool, but really I just want to be with her at all times, and I feel talking to her constantly but that would just get annoying. I know she cares for me too, but definitely not as much as I do her. What can I do to fix this. Should I try to move on and forget these feelings or keep persisting, and just f*** myself over, over time?
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 January 2012): I will try to reply to your question as good as I can. You ended your question with the following, which is in my opinion all the really matters here:
"Should I try to move on and forget these feelings or keep persisting, and just f*** myself over, over time?"
The answer is quite simple. Go and talk to her about your feelings so that you know if she's interested or not. This because you give yourself the option to either stay quiet for the rest of your life or discuss it with her.
I say that you talk to her about it. When she isn't interested, you can always stay quiet afterwards, but if you don't give it a try then you'll be quiet as well and loose a chance of being happy together!
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reader, Kyle007  +, writes (23 January 2012):
Doesn't look like there is a future.
Best find someone else to socialize with.
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