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writes:There is this guy I like at school and me and him (I wouldn't call it all flirting) but we have been picking with each. I was picking because I started to really like him but I didn't know if he was gay. Well over the weekend I was bored and on Facebook and I looked at his profile and he said on his info that he was interested in men and women. I was so happy when I saw this because their might be a chance that he is interested. The hard part is, is that I'm not openly gay ( no one knows) and he isn't openly at school. I don't know how to tell him I like him. He might not even be gay and would be embarrassing myself. Another reason why I'm scared is because he talks real loud and what if I tell him and he blurt out some kind of negative comment. I dont know what to do. We sit beside each other at school and I don't know a way to tell him so it can be just be between us because it's other students around and I'd he isn't gay he might say something crazy because we're goof balls of the class. I hope he was telling the truth of his facebook page saying he was interested in men and women. He doesnt even seem gay at all i would have thought of him being the last person to be gay or Bi. He is so masculine. Im so scared to put myself out their because I never have since I'm not openly gay yet. Ways I thought to tell him l like him is 1. Telling him I got something to tell him and to txt me. 2.telling him in a note. 3 his number is on Facebook( should I go ahead and tell him now. Im so scared because I don't know his out come he might not be gay and tell everyone I tried to make a move. I'm so scared. What are ways to tell him? Should I tell him I like him?
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 January 2012): 18 months ago I met my 1st love from 40 yrs ago. Started a bff's than we started to get closer and closer, it felt so comfortable, we fell in love , he lives in a different state but travels 5 days a week. we are both married,but not happily.after making out he says he feels guily for his wife,but stills loves me. We have talked once since.How do I slowly and tactily get his feelings back . Its only been a week.
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reader, celtic_tiger  +, writes (22 January 2012):
 I would move with caution on this, facebook is not the most reliable source of information for things like this.
I teach a lot of 18-21 yr olds, and many of them have their sexuality down as something different to reality. Some are in relationships with, married to, or in civil partnerships with members of the same sex, when actually they are straight. To them, its just a joke, a bit of fun. (I dont understand it to be honest).
If you are worried about his reaction, or people finding out, do not put it down on paper or in words. No emails, texts or notes - these can be passed around. Talk to him face to face.
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