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writes:I with a guy and things are going really well but the problem is that I am extremely shy when it comes to any physical contact and he is starting to make small comments like he always makes the first move etc. I really like him but I feel embarrassed about all aspects of physical contact, you could say I'm immature for my age of 28. I have never had a boyfriend and this guy is very experienced. I just don't know what to do without getting all red in the face and feeling stupid. He knows I'm a virgin and thinks it's cool but doesn't understand how I've never had a boyfriend, I just say it's because I never go out and meet people. He is being great but I really don't know what to do, I even get embarrassed when kissing, let alone anything else. I feel really silly because of my age.
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reader, Trinklett  +, writes (21 January 2012):
 Try being more affectionate around him. When you're together sit close to him and put a hand on his lap. You can do this while leaning against him and watching a movie or something. Smile at him often with your eyes. Hug him when you meet. And I have to say it really quite easy to initiate a kiss especially in the position with your hand on his lap. Just look into his eyes, at his lips and move closer. Every other thing should fall in place. And of course you close your eyes while kissing him. Have fun.
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (21 January 2012):
 Do not feel silly, age is just a number at the end of the day, it is about experience not age, and you do not have any simple as that. But practice makes perfect. He probably feels you might not want him because he is always the one to make the first move. But I think what you need to do is to sit down and explain to him how you feel about everything and just take your time with things. It will soon become easier, as they say practice makes perfect, and that is true. Ask him to guide you in things and try and make an effort to be more affectionate. I know you are embarrassed but just try and push yourself to be more loving towards him, it will become easier the more you try and kiss him the more confidence you will get, but you need to make it clear to him how you are feeling and also show him you love him in other ways. Good luck.
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