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anonymous
writes:Hello, I started seeing a girl a couple of months ago we spent some time together and slept together a few times, we got very close it was very passionate.The Christmas holidays came up so she was out of town for a while likewise with me too, so we never saw each other over this period. It's been a few weeks since we met up now. Last week she told me she'd be around if I wanted to met up and I said yes and that week should be ok. I heard nothing back so I just thought she just wanted to move on and forget so I sent her a message and asked her if we were through? She said no and that everything was ok with us and that she's been feeling reclusive also finding it hard to speak to anyone and she stated not even with text messages she ended the message saying sorry. I answered her and just said I can relate to that myself and that it would be lovely to see you soon. I've heard nothing back so far.What can you make of this? What do you think I should do? Many thanks in advance
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 January 2012): Hi, I am the original poster - I've not heard anything from her. I thought it would be best now to wait and she if she initiates the contact. Does any one have a clue to what might be wrong? I've been up front and asked her if we're through but she told me no & that we're ok.
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reader, Kyle007  +, writes (22 January 2012):
She needs to tell you why she is being so reclusive. There cannot be secrets between the two of you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 January 2012): Thanks for your reply. I still have heard nothing from her it's all very odd. I appreciate your comments but I have done this already. I bought her a nice present for xmas and had plans for a special time I was making plans to do but she has been like this with me so it's all on hold because of it.
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reader, Abella +, writes (21 January 2012):
 she wants you to woo her.
She wants to be delighted by you.
She wants YOU to initiate the contact, and she wants you to offer her a concrete firm day, time, place for a really firm offer of a reunion outing to remember.
In a word, try to start the ball rolling.
Think of things she loves. Pick a bunch of flowers and include a note listing all the things that you find delightful about her.
You need to be firm, surprising, delightfu
and positive and even quirky and turn up at her place with breakfast on a tray.
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