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*ioletspring
writes:My 19 year old (gay) boyfriend of 8 months is everything I could ask for; charming, sweet, kind, lovable. He has been nothing but devoted to me, plus we mean the world to each other. But today he confronted me with his beginning infatuation and flirtation with this 'friend' he met a week ago. He says he loves me with all his heart, but he's not sure of what he actually wants when I asked him if he wanted me or the other guy. The new 'friend' relationship was supposed to be platonic, but may have begun to evolve. Would this be a scenario to break up with him? Or should I give him some time? What do I do? It kills me inside just thinking of breaking up.
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reader, violetspring +, writes (21 January 2012):
violetspring is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHe fully-blown cheated on me (no pun intended), all were lies. Thanks.
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reader, VSAddict  +, writes (21 January 2012):
 If he's not sure that he wants only you, then you should break up. You may be a good couple, but you shouldn't have to wonder if he still wants you. And he shouldn't be crushing or interested in someone he's only known for a week, especially while with you. Tell him that you won't be wondering whether he wants you or not, and that he has to make a choice. If he's going to let a week long friendship overpower a 8 month relationship, then he's not worth it.
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