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*hiamaka
writes: Hi everyone. im dating three guys and two of they guys have already known that am double dating. I was thinking that will make them leave me but they are still begging me to stay. All i want now is how to choose between these three guys. Am confused. I really need help Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, Tisha-1 +, writes (20 January 2012):
If you can't choose between any of them, that means there's no clear pick for you, which means you may as well keep on dating. As long as you are open and honest about the fact that you are still looking for the right guy, it's fine to continue your selection process.
As none of them appeal in particular to you, though, I would suggest you stop seeing these three and continue looking. Or perhaps take some time off from dating to see if some distance and time gives you clarity into what type of man you are seeking.
If you are sexually active with any of them, be sure to practice safe sex and use condoms. No exceptions! Good luck.
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