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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:I was in a LDR for 3 years and we were perfect for each other...I love him!!This exact time was when I saw him physically last I went to see him on the 20th and came home first week into february but when I left things changed and he became incredibly depressed and dumped me in april. Horrible time!!! Anyways since then Ive wanted him back and once he got out of his depression I tried getting him back but he was set on getting his career underway etc which I admire him for.Now...I met someone in December whom Im falling in love with and I didnt think that was possible because I have soo much love for my ex. But just as I started seeing this new person my ex finally started being nice to me once again and admitted he missed me (he knows nothing of the other guy) so obviously I was happy about that.Well now Im with this new guy ALOT, we're not going out yet because well he didnt plan this either (in the past 7 years he has been single for around 5 months and that is with 2 relationships...currently been single right now for 3/4 months and said he would remian single for atleast a year and then I come along....so we're just seeing where this goes)Anyways Im not online anywhere near as much as I used to and Ive came online to discover my ex is depressed again pretty badly and doesnt care all over again and I dont know its draining! I still love him, I still want to be with him but Im thinking I need to move on because Ive been soo happy with this other guy lately then talking to my ex for 5 minutes I feel sad.How do I get over him? What do I do? He dumped me 9 months ago...
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