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anonymous
writes:Hi everyone, I need some advice on what to do. I feel guilty and am plagued with sin. A few days back my friend and I hung out together but as we were talking, he suddenly hugged me and even planted a kiss on me. Although I pushed him away but he seemed adamant on giving me a kiss. But the thing is I'm attached. I'm feeling so confused right now. If he knew I was attached, why did he do that? When I asked him why he did that, he said it felt right at that moment. I feel so tormented by guilt now. How am I going to face my bf? For the record, I have no feelings for that guy. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 January 2012): Why were you hanging out "alone" with this so called friend? Think of how he would interpret it. I don't think he would believe you, even if you were honest. Just sayin.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 January 2012): What's there to feel guilty about? He went to kiss YOU and you pushed him away. You did nothing wrong.
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reader, LovelessAct1  +, writes (20 January 2012):
You should not feel guilty. Feel enraged that this guy violated your personal space, even after you pushed him away. Feel sad that he stooped to such levels to get close to you. Feel betrayed and disappointed that a good friend of yours would make a move on you when you're in a relationship. But do not feel guilty or that you're "plagued with sin." You did nothing wrong.
Your boyfriend should be told about this, but not because you did anything wrong; because your FRIEND did something wrong. Tell your boyfriend and be 100% honest that you tried to push him away and that he made a move without your consent.
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