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writes:I feel like I'm invisable. I've just got through a very hard break up and I'm currently going to councilling but I feel very alone in the world hell my mother wont even talk to me. No one is listening to me or trying to help me. I don't know whats wrong or what i'm doing wrong why do i feel like everyone doesnt love me or they hate me? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 January 2012): you could be misinterpreting silences or lack of time as lack of caring.
it's probably not personal. everyone is harried and stressed out with their own lives.
if you give off a lot of negative vibes though, that could be pushing people away and making them not want to interact so much with you.
find something that interests you, and join a group for that to get to know more people that you have something in common with.
also what often draws people together is working together for an urgent noble cause that they feel passionate aboubt. Join a charity or nonproit that seeks to remedy something you feel strongly about (such as animal or child abuse) and people will rally together to work towards the common good and you will be part of that and feel less alone and isolated.
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reader, Emily20  +, writes (20 January 2012):
 My dear your family keeping silent Will be for so many reasons,not because they dont love you,maybe they are scared of hurting you,with what they say,but i will advise you to hold on to yourself,then try and talk to your mom,see her reaction,before you make your concludsion that no one love you,because u are passing through emotional stress rite now,and everytin that happens to you rite now,will be bad,but dont worry everytin will be fyn ok,they are people who still care about u.ok
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