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female
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes:My case is with a friend. He and I were co-workers, his girlfriend worked in the same place too. He liked to flirted with me and various people commented on that I never wanted to mess with him and do not pick quarrels with his girlfriend. He began to lose his money and she became annoyed and disappointed that ended up breaking up with him and leaving him for another.However, he always was very close to me and since he had that attraction began to ask me sex-mail (we were sending nude photos and masturbate each other simultaneously) I agreed because he wasn´t indifferent to me. Turns out I realized he did the same with other girls too. I looked at it first like a game to play but I left because I fell in love but he did NOT.Well, for the new year I sent him a text wishing him to be happy and loved him. He replied that he wanted the also loved me a lot. Then a week later I reveal my feelings to him but he no longer said he loved me that way but wanted only friendship. Then I went looking for him to Talk to him and he said he had met a foreign girl who left her boyfriend to go out with him and that he was seeing her now. He broke my heart and could not hold on anymore and end up crying.I Deleted it from my contacts and send him a text telling him what to expect and understand why I was doing it and that I loved him.He got upset and claim me why I erased him, but when explained I didn't want to see him with someone else he just stay there staring at me. We hugged again that day and are supposed to be friends although I know he doesn't love me. He sent me a text saying "Happy Valentine's" on February 14 and will only answer "Thanks, you the same." But now I feel he is really indifferent to me like he despised me or something.He hasn't changed his status or placed the girl's picture on , only him, his family and dogs which I like very much and he knows it. On Friday he put his picture on the messenger looking sad and I asked stupidly why you don't look happy and he didn't answered, I apologized and asked if they he got upset of me asking and he said "not at all." I feel used and unappreciated by him, he is making me like trash now after being my friend when I was the only person who was at his side at ALL when his girl left, he got bankcrupt. Why is he doing this when i even had erased him and he practically asked to placed him back?
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reader, janniepeg  +, writes (20 February 2012):
 He is a player. You should have kept to your word. When you said you unfriended him, then stop talking to him and stop hoping that he would see how good you were to him. He is only thinking of himself and could not offer you what you want. You have to choose carefully who you love. You exchanged pics and masturbated and then L words were exchanged. No dates no history. Seriously? Love a man for how he treats you. Not because you needed love and would do anything for love.
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